How to tell her your intent of dating her without bringing her defenses up?

[Plank]

I need your advice guys.
I have noticed a pattern with me, whenever I'm gaming a girl and for a few days it's going good.
she is answering the calls, replies instantly, maintains eye contact , laughs even at the stupidest joke of mine.
But whenever I tell her, that I would never prefer to be a friend, suddenly she turn cold and it feels her defenses come up.

So, I want to ask what do you do, to make the intention clear that you like her and won't prefer the friendzone.

 

[Alvafe]

kiss as soon as possible, first date, also ask her as soon too, she knows very well what is your intentions are, also taht is pretty much the basic, if you really are new, new, I recomend you read the DJ bible

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I need your advice guys.
I have noticed a pattern with me, whenever I'm gaming a girl and for a few days it's going good.
she is answering the calls, replies instantly, maintains eye contact , laughs even at the stupidest joke of mine.
But whenever I tell her, that I would never prefer to be a friend, suddenly she turn cold and it feels her defenses come up.

So, I want to ask what do you do, to make the intention clear that you like her and won't prefer the friendzone.

You stop talking about it and get her out in person

 

[Plank]

kiss as soon as possible, first date, also ask her as soon too, she knows very well what is your intentions are, also taht is pretty much the basic, if you really are new, new, I recomend you read the DJ bible

Thanks for replying.

 

[bat soup]

I need your advice guys.
I have noticed a pattern with me, whenever I'm gaming a girl and for a few days it's going good.
she is answering the calls, replies instantly, maintains eye contact , laughs even at the stupidest joke of mine.
But whenever I tell her, that I would never prefer to be a friend, suddenly she turn cold and it feels her defenses come up.

So, I want to ask what do you do, to make the intention clear that you like her and won't prefer the friendzone.

She´s getting free attention whilst leading you on and wasting your time. Then you show that you've got some balls and she doesn't like it because now she can't continue to use you.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Women, in my experience, make the men wait who they see a viable future with.

Unfortunately, this means when you are a viable man, you need to have a completely different type of game from men who aren't viable, a viable man must be a manipulator.

 

[2Rocky]

Be sexual in your vibe early on rather than platonic. Don't bait and switch her.
Eye contact
Kino
Innuendo
escalate on the first meeting.

But don't be direct and obscene...there is a difference.

 

[BadBoy89]

But whenever I tell her, that I would never prefer to be a friend, suddenly she turn cold and it feels her defenses come up.

Thats too direct. It’s akin to saying “I only prefer you as a hooker.”

Remember, a woman’s power over a man is sex. A man has to take this power away as fast as possible. He does this by making a sexual move as fast as possible. The longer a man goes without making a sexual move, the more power the woman gets.

Just try to touch her / make a move. Her physical response will show you where she stands with you.