Joseph Defranza
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 22, 2021
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- 29
Something that always rubbed me the wrong way even after taking the redpill is what Rollo Tomassi calls "the sisterhood uber alles". Basically they always back each other up and side with what's best for the female experience. Understanding this was probably the most helpful part of taking the redpill, it's something I still have to keep in the back of my mind today when dealing with women, even when they're family. Let me share a few experiences to illustrate my point.
1) When my father got divorced, my mom went off the rails. When he gave an inch, she tried to take a mile financially. Her family (especially the girls in it) not only painted my father as the bad guy, but they also made him out to be EVIL. Yes, they used that exact word. Even though I provided proof their claims were false, they still stuck with their "evil" narrative.
2) My father was a pitching coach for my 14-year-old travel baseball team. He sacrificed much time and effort training my teammates and was responsible for many of them being on the team in the first place. His sacrifice and effort was not appreciated when my mom began talking bad about him to the moms of my teammates. As soon as they heard what my mom told them (which was false), they began shunning him and giving him the cold shoulder, even at team parties. After everything Dad gave to them and their sons, they did not hesitate to treat him like dirt just on hearsay of another girl. They did not bother even asking about his side.
3) I once took out a girl from work on her birthday for drinks because she was flirting hardcore and relentlessly touching me. Eventually she was in my lap and when I went in for the kiss, she pulled away and said she can't because she had a boyfriend. When I asked about the mixed signals, she said "I'm an Aries so I'm naturally flirty." At this point I was annoyed that I bought her a some drinks so obviously the girl was just being a tease. She wanted me to buy her more drinks at last call, but instead I rejected her "let's just be friends" offer and left the bar (in a polite way). The next day every girl at work was giving me the cold shoulder because, according to one of them, I "left Jillian at the bar alone on her birthday and couldn't just be a friend to her." That's the narrative they went with, of course it was missing a few key pieces of the story, most notably the parts about her being physically all over me. Again, without even asking about my side of the story, I was shunned. Instantly and forever guilty, I guess.
The moral of the story guys is to be very careful when dealing with and confiding in females, because they always have each others back. When choosing between logic and their fellow girls, they're siding with their fellow girls every time.
1) When my father got divorced, my mom went off the rails. When he gave an inch, she tried to take a mile financially. Her family (especially the girls in it) not only painted my father as the bad guy, but they also made him out to be EVIL. Yes, they used that exact word. Even though I provided proof their claims were false, they still stuck with their "evil" narrative.
2) My father was a pitching coach for my 14-year-old travel baseball team. He sacrificed much time and effort training my teammates and was responsible for many of them being on the team in the first place. His sacrifice and effort was not appreciated when my mom began talking bad about him to the moms of my teammates. As soon as they heard what my mom told them (which was false), they began shunning him and giving him the cold shoulder, even at team parties. After everything Dad gave to them and their sons, they did not hesitate to treat him like dirt just on hearsay of another girl. They did not bother even asking about his side.
3) I once took out a girl from work on her birthday for drinks because she was flirting hardcore and relentlessly touching me. Eventually she was in my lap and when I went in for the kiss, she pulled away and said she can't because she had a boyfriend. When I asked about the mixed signals, she said "I'm an Aries so I'm naturally flirty." At this point I was annoyed that I bought her a some drinks so obviously the girl was just being a tease. She wanted me to buy her more drinks at last call, but instead I rejected her "let's just be friends" offer and left the bar (in a polite way). The next day every girl at work was giving me the cold shoulder because, according to one of them, I "left Jillian at the bar alone on her birthday and couldn't just be a friend to her." That's the narrative they went with, of course it was missing a few key pieces of the story, most notably the parts about her being physically all over me. Again, without even asking about my side of the story, I was shunned. Instantly and forever guilty, I guess.
The moral of the story guys is to be very careful when dealing with and confiding in females, because they always have each others back. When choosing between logic and their fellow girls, they're siding with their fellow girls every time.
