"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help me pick somewhere to stay in Atlantic City for my birthday, I have options...

BPH

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So I'm celebrating my birthday in Atlantic City, NJ this weekend.

I've got a room at Ocean Casino for Saturday, and I have a friend who's comping the room for Sunday. However, they have no nightlife in the hotel itself, no bars are open, just drinking on the gambling floor. But I'm told it's a very nice hotel and that people will be milling about all day.

The place that I'm told is probably the best as far as nightlife, given the pandemic, is Anthem at Tropicana. This hotel would be about $50 cheaper, I would not have Sunday comped, but I wouldn't have to go outside of my own hotel for the nightlife. Both hotels have a pool.

I don't know what the vibe is here right now. I'm simple. I wanna get drunk with my friends and I wanna get laid. Hopefully somebody around here has a better idea of Atlantic City than myself to maybe advise me a little here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bones_2086

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There’s a club in borgata forgot the name but it’s lit lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MatureDJ

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I wanna get drunk with my friends and I wanna get laid. Hopefully somebody around here has a better idea of Atlantic City than myself to maybe advise me a little here.
In that case, you shouldn't GO to Atlantic City. but rather CROSS the Atlantic and go to Amsterdam. ;)
 
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