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Ideal penis length - according to woman

Bigpapa

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Read somewhere a while back that your erect penis should be the length from the base of your palm to the tip of your middle finger.
I have small hands , but quite a big ding dong . Bigger than average at least

dunno , from my experience they are ok with banging them , but it does not mean that they will also enjoy it. Especially if you go deep and fast

if you go slower , then yes , they will not feel discomfort . But it will be not that enjoyable for you

7+ inch I think it is in the very big range

if you look at porn movies with black dudes , you will notice that it does not fits most of the time more than 3\4 of the penis in the woman
 

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I would lie if I say that I'm not a bit insecure about my boy down there. I'm a big man (1.90m), It's about 16cm, but I feel it should be a bit bigger. But it's not a rule. I'm comfortable with it, tho. It looks good, it's thick enough, it does its job very well. No complaints.
 

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Very true. Woman have to carefully navigate fragile male egos, while simultaneously trying to get the sex that they really want
Female egos are also "fragile".

So men want to hear that they need a top 5% **** to satisfy a female, when a man with barrels of sexual confidence can do it with something around average or maybe a little more or less.
 

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I tell women who ask that I've got a Goldilocks ****. Not too big, not too small, just right. Based on this survey I haven't been lying.
 

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7 and a half at full mast and I also have a piercing, currently wearing a 6mm thick curved bar with a 10mm
steel ball on each end.
 

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I tell women who ask that I've got a Goldilocks ****. Not too big, not too small, just right. Based on this survey I haven't been lying.
"Goldilocks" of c0cks, very good... I'm sure they treat your unit like it's crafted out of solid gold.
 

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Trim back your hair, makes it appear larger. All about perspective/illusion.
 

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Women don't know how to measure with the naked eye. They know 8" is in a small percentile and a go-to number, so they go with that because it sounds big. 95% of men are between 4 and 7 inches, so it's unlikely a lot of women have even seen an 8+ in person, despite what they say. Most porn penises are camera tricks or fake. Not saying big c0cks don't exist, same with tiny, but they're rare. She'll tell you you're big and tell her friends you're big if you bang her right. If you ghost her or break her heart she may say the opposite. :) Online porn has caused a lot of body dysmorphia for dudes. Her mind is her true erogenous zone.
 

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Women don't know how to measure with the naked eye. They know 8" is in a small percentile and a go-to number, so they go with that because it sounds big. 95% of men are between 4 and 7 inches, so it's unlikely a lot of women have even seen an 8+ in person, despite what they say. Most porn penises are camera tricks or fake. Not saying big c0cks don't exist, same with tiny, but they're rare. She'll tell you you're big and tell her friends you're big if you bang her right. If you ghost her or break her heart she may say the opposite. :) Online porn has caused a lot of body dysmorphia for dudes. Her mind is her true erogenous zone.
haha yeah, certainly had the small **** rumour come back on me before.
 

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Go fvck the folk who accuse you of being small.
girl I was seeing a few months ago once said how big it was for someone so slim/lean (its not, it's around 7" - probably means 4" in reality :D)'). As if it can get bigger or smaller according to your body weight.
 

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Women don't know how to measure with the naked eye. They know 8" is in a small percentile and a go-to number, so they go with that because it sounds big. 95% of men are between 4 and 7 inches, so it's unlikely a lot of women have even seen an 8+ in person, despite what they say. Most porn penises are camera tricks or fake. Not saying big c0cks don't exist, same with tiny, but they're rare. She'll tell you you're big and tell her friends you're big if you bang her right. If you ghost her or break her heart she may say the opposite. :) Online porn has caused a lot of body dysmorphia for dudes. Her mind is her true erogenous zone.
I'm not small but I've heard "it looks smaller than it feels" before. But of course, the size changes depending on a lot of stuff, how hot she is/super horny/just starting/just about to finish/no sex for 2 weeks/etc.
 

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girl I was seeing a few months ago once said how big it was for someone so slim/lean (its not, it's around 7" - probably means 4" in reality :D)'). As if it can get bigger or smaller according to your body weight.
They be lying. Adding a inch or two for a guy that they favor and taking an inch or two from a guy that made em mad.
 

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Women don't know size with the naked eye. Maybe some but it's definitely very few and she must have seen a ton of c0cks to eyeball measurements. I personally never had a problem however there were some girls I had to take it slow with. I never considered myself larger than average because from my "up looking down" perspective, I felt normal and sometimes even small. I got curious and I went to this medical site that tells you how to accurately & properly measure your penis. It turned out that I was supposedly in a small percentile of Men. The measurements came out at a full erect 8.2" length (Bone Pressed) and 5.5" in girth. Some Men go even bigger which i can see being a real problem if their Women are small. Either too long or too thick (girth).

Check this website out that calculates your percentile based on length/girth and other measurements. https://calcsd.netlify.app/full
 
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