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Getting Tired When Going Out

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I'm 34 and I rarely do the bar scene anymore. I usually stick to sports bars. Recently I've consciously noticed how mentally drained and tired I get when going out, which is usually on Friday evenings after work. I know work has a lot to do with it but when hanging with other guys, I feel their energy levels are higher than mine. They're always flirting with the Hooters chicks or the female bartenders. Me? I mainly sit there not trying to start a meaningless conversation with any of them. I consider myself a good looking dude so my friend is always bringing girls around to chat and they do, but man I find it tiresome to entertain these chicks sometimes. Yesterday my bud asked if I was ok because this cute chick seemed to want to chat with me but I honestly just wanted to have my beers and watch whatever game was on tv. Could this be low T? I hate the thought of that. And it would be weird because I go pretty hard at the gym and lift pretty heavy and can feel the adrenaline. Anyway I don't like how things are going with me feeling so mentally drained when I'm out. I feel like some of my friends think I'm becoming lame. Any recommendations?
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Being and introvert myself, could you be to a certain degree?
As i understand one can even become an introvert at a later point in life.

Introverts find it draining to be in crowds and they hate usually hate "meaningless conversation".
 

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ThisIsSparta said:
Being and introvert myself, could you be to a certain degree?
As i understand one can even become an introvert at a later point in life.

Introverts find it draining to be in crowds and they hate usually hate "meaningless conversation".
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It's possible that I've transitioned to that outside of work. My job involves me speaking to people all day and I figured that would be the reason. But my buddy is in sales and he's a social butterfly outside of work. So not sure how that works.
 
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