"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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About to become single for the first time in 2 years, what's the dating scene like 30+?

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I'm actually a little fvcking nervous believe it or not because of all the horror stories I read online (written by mostly women, obviously) of how ****ty it is to be 30+ and single. Feels kind of daunting - I've been in a relationship for about two years now since I was 28 and it feels like I'm getting divorced or some sh!t. I feel old now lmao.

But honestly, from the DJs who get it - what's the dating scene like for a man who's 6'4, good looking, athletic, and makes over six figures? I feel like I should check most of the boxes at this point but who's to say really? What was your guys' experience like?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Brighty said:
I'm actually a little fvcking nervous believe it or not because of all the horror stories I read online (written by mostly women, obviously) of how ****ty it is to be 30+ and single. Feels kind of daunting - I've been in a relationship for about three years now since I was 27 and it feels like I'm getting divorced or some ****. I'm old now lmao.

But honestly, from the DJs who get it - what's the dating scene like for a man who's 6'4, good looking, athletic, and makes over six figures? I feel like I should check most of the boxes at this point but who's to say really? What was your guys' experience like?
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Your like a powerful and sleek designed computer or phone that's stand alone, not on a network.
 
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Brighty said:
what's the dating scene like for a man who's 6'4, good looking, athletic, and makes over six figures? I feel like I should check most of the boxes at this point but who's to say really? What was your guys' experience like?
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Relax man. You are having a much bigger arsenal than many guys out there.
 
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Brighty said:
I'm actually a little fvcking nervous believe it or not because of all the horror stories I read online (written by mostly women, obviously) of how ****ty it is to be 30+ and single.
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Welcome.
Be glad you discovered SS first of all. Knowing is half the battle.

And since you recently got out of a relationship. Biggest thing is to get your mind our of the relationship mode and get into the dating mode again. This is one of the mistakes I see a lot of guys making.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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