Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I've been dating her for months and had sex with her at least five times. We are going towards a relationship. But i see this pattern almost everytime. Thats why im asking
Is it "that one chick" or do you talk about "some chicks" meaning this happens frequently to you?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I havent showed anything. She still makes herself available anytime. Its just the initiating thing. Persisting to ask her out once a week or smth vs pulling back one week to create mystery.
Men don't play games. Continue going out and creating opportunity for sex to happen.
Sounds like she has medium interest at best. You may be able to get an LTR with her -- but since you are already worried about the level of attention you're getting from her likely not a good idea. You don't have good frame, brother. You are setting yourself up for a lot of aggravation with this one.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So whats your idea? Pulling back until she answers? Thanks for the response bro.
Pull back now and see if she begins to show more interest. Understand that this is likely only temporary though. This is not going to be effective long term given that you two aren't even in an LTR yet. I would only have her as a plate at this point.
She probably read some BS book entitled "How to manipulate men into getting married".
Yeah, since its casual dating i felt the same. Spinning her as a plate.
Have you banged this woman yet?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I've banged her five times and Every other week since two three months back. She is an old collegue and friend.
Sounds like a lot of insecurity to me. You already had sex and she makes herself available anytime you want. You are seeing her on your own terms by reaching out to her when YOU want. You need to lead and continue to lead and be confident about it.
AMS has some good advice, but he also has really bad advice. He goes for a different type of specific woman that he has specialized in.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.