You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
women in general have the mind of a 5 years old girl
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
As true as this is, more and more men are being lost on their path towards human creation and legacy, just because a couple b!tches decided to post bikini pictures on social media.
Can confirm. Surprised my car wasn't smashed by the last one I dated.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Thankfully I figured this one out when I was still a virgin.
this usually happens when she thinks that you are a little bit out of her league and acting aloof or teasing her .
That is not fair because he is a chadlite (or even a chad for that matter if he just dated down too) and his experience does not reflect the experience of 80% of the rest of the average users on here. So if you trying to make a point then its better you dont use a chad/chadlite as your example.
Anyone can be a chad if he dates down enough
women might be hypergamous , but her mating objective is different than the one of a man
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A chad dates down out of convenience or a drama less thing, that is why even uglier (ie hb5 to hb 7 vs hb 8 to hb9) women have over inflated SMV. An average guy then cant really date down in the same manner and will often end up MTGOW if they think the juice is not worth the squeeze. If the theory is right thee should be more uglier girls who are alpha widows than prettier ones right?Anyone can be a chad if he dates down enough
Man , the problem with you is that you over analyze things and do not do the work in order to increase your smv so you can have success , either by dating down or dating at thr same level or a little bit above
yup.
attraction is there before you approach , and at that point she does not know if she can have you or not , but she hopes that she can have you , even though she knows that is a small chance
How much work do you think I am doing? Where did I say I was looking for a model? You dont know nothing about me dude.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
well , I asked you a couple of times already
It has nothing to do with whether someone is "Chad" or "Chad-lite." Stop getting so hung up on red-pill lingo that has zero application here. What is important is you can't be afraid to lose a woman period. This type of mindset will hold you back from being successful with (higher SMV) women.
That is convenient to say when you have allot of women and already have abundance as indicated on his other thread.
Your mindset is a self-fulfilling prophecy, brother. You say you have no abundance so you can't feel that you will ever not care about losing a woman. However, without an abundance mindset you can't ever get to that point to begin with and you are doomed to fail with women in general.
man , cut the bs
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
