"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does The Club DJ Get To Bang Many Hot Chicks??

soulforge

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Pre Covid, as A DJ spinning tunes in a hot & sweaty club, how likely is it that you would get to smash lots of hot tipsy young woman?

I'm guessing this is a profession in which your chances of getting laid massively increases.

Which other proffesion gets you access to lots of hotties?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BackInTheGame78

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Pre Covid, as A DJ spinning tunes in a hot & sweaty club, how likely is it that you would get to smash lots of hot tipsy young woman?

I'm guessing this is a profession in which your chances of getting laid massively increases.

Which other proffesion gets you access to lots of hotties?
I never had to do anything. Multiple hot chicks would literally throw themselves at me on a nightly basis and I could pick and choose who I wanted to fvck that night.
 

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I worked as a DJ for several years and didn't get any chicks while DJing (at the bar, club, restaurant..), chicks come to ask tunes, thats it. I don't know what kind of DJ you were, but if you're a mashup DJ you don't have time to talk to people, if you're a House DJ you have plenty of time.
I got hot girls outside of the venue, girls love DJs, but on the job, never got any. My experience.
I was a house DJ at popular clubs and was fairly well known in the area because I did after hours parties with other DJs and would mingle with people at them...I think that definitely helped because I had a following and people for the most part thought I was a cool guy and was one of them. Also used to go and just hang out with people at various houses when they would have a bunch of people back there and would further mingle...
 
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