I find it very hard to meet women in real life or online that don’t want kids

[BackInTheGame78]

Use a VPN and say your name is Bob.

Good luck with that strategy.

 

[christie]

I am not saying he is, I am saying in the grand scheme he would be rather than the women. Species exist to procreate, its a biological instinct.

that is one opinion for reason of existence; there is at least one other opinion for reason of existence

 

[BackInTheGame78]

that is one opinion for reason of existence; there is at least one other opinion for reason of existence

Well, to my knowledge, no species has ever willfully gone extinct from it's own doing.

 

[christie]

Well, to my knowledge, no species has ever willfully gone extinct from it's own doing.

interesting....I don't know how many species had the ability to reason out this type of big decision....interesting to think about over lunchtime here

I'm super curious to know for sure what dna I am.

 

[christie]

Why even talk about this subject with a woman anyway? She would only be filtering for a man to be her producer.

filtering to gain communication skills-that's exactly right. For the wrong "p' word though. I'm unabashedly looking for a Protector and I'm learning how to attract him off sosuave with the skills I learn/absorb here.

 

[Lookatu]

filtering to gain communication skills-that's exactly right. For the wrong "p' word though. I'm unabashedly looking for a Protector and I'm learning how to attract him off sosuave with the skills I learn/absorb here.

"I have a FOID card and a "few" guns"... LOL

 

[sch]

I actually date younger chicks who wanna make career and don't want kids in near future, so I've faced the opposite problem. At some moment I wanted to settle down and all girls basically wanted to just sleep with me without any strings attached.

 

[christie]

"I have a FOID card and a "few" guns"... LOL

*off-sosuave, irl*.. and I'll have to look that phrase up

 

[Lookatu]

*off-sosuave, irl*.. and I'll have to look that phrase up

Lol I was joking but FOID = Firearms card so you can own guns legally in the US. But I think you're in Canada IIRC so not sure what the equivalent would be up there.

 

[BadBoy89]

the two exboyfriends merely led me to believe they didn't want children in what they said in person and wrote in letters or texts)but then did a 180 and 'changed their mind'

Please don't lie.

They didn’t lie. They changed their minds.

Lying is saying you are a millionaire when you are not.
Lying is saying you can play guitar when you can’t
Lying is saying you can speak 3 languages when you can’t.

To say you don’t want kids at 34 and then saying you do at 41 is not lying.

 

[derby1]

Just a heads up, Im a single dad of one, & 37 years old. Ive managed to recently get childless women as plates, all of which were around 30 year olds. 6 months ago I would have thought all my heavens had come at once, achieving childless women as plates

I have never dealt with such messed up women in my life, it is the worst move Ive ever made.

if a woman is now available/childless over 28 , I run to the hills

 

[christie]

Lol I was joking but FOID = Firearms card so you can own guns legally in the US. But I think you're in Canada IIRC so not sure what the equivalent would be up there.

PAL non restricted

 

[christie]

They didn’t lie. They changed their minds.

Lying is saying you are a millionaire when you are not.
Lying is saying you can play guitar when you can’t
Lying is saying you can speak 3 languages when you can’t.

To say you don’t want kids at 34 and then saying you do at 41 is not lying.

good points, just used to only women getting away with 'changing their minds'.
Expectations of men are higher that they stick to their word.

Men change their mind like women. It always shocks me.

 

[Velasco]

Expectations of men are higher that they stick to their word.

Men change their mind like women. It always shocks me.

reason it is shocking is because you don't understand that we are all cut from the same cloth.

reason men act (and don't act) a certain way is because it gets them what they want. if being unable to stick to their word or being submissive, were traits that were attractive to women (why are certain traits attractive/not attractive to women/men? comes down to survival/replication theory ("that's feminine, bro" = will not increase your probability of S/R acting this way), more men would act this way. its performance at the end of the day. just that after a while, it becomes unconscious for certain individuals who choose to adapt these traits. those who don't, will sometimes act in ways which may shock you. Because you mistakenly believed only women were capable of acting this way.

 

[christie]

reason it is shocking is because you don't understand that we are all cut from the same cloth.

reason men act (and don't act) a certain way is because it gets them what they want. if being unable to stick to their word or being submissive, were traits that were attractive to women (why are certain traits attractive/not attractive to women/men? comes down to survival/replication theory ("that's feminine, bro" = will not increase your probability of S/R acting this way), more men would act this way. its performance at the end of the day. just that after a while, it becomes unconscious for certain individuals who choose to adapt these traits. those who don't, will sometimes act in ways which may shock you. Because you mistakenly believed only women were capable of acting this way.

yes, thank you for feeding me the redpill again. I keep hoping and pedastalizing men as better than women. When they take on what I mistakenly believed were just feminine traits, I'm horrified. Such a sense of doom and imbalance in my worldview.

It is so relaxing to come across authentic men who stubbornly stick with the same personality. Its valuable.

Op, stay true to yourself. You'll find success by remaining who you are.