Mister_Skinny_Jeanz
Master Don Juan
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
good point very interesting , everybodys talking about the girls disrespect , which i agree she was disrepectfulSkanks gonna skank. I bet if that Salt Bae tried the same thing in Turkey he wouldn't survive for 3 days.
The word is salt dude does it to all his customersgood point very interesting , everybodys talking about the girls disrespect , which i agree she was disrepectful
but he should have slapped that piece of meet of the knife and gave him the no no sign, nobody is talking about the dudes lack of confidence to check salt dude. ??
No loyalty points , no loyalty system. No honor.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If I knew thats how that normally goes with his customers I'd have to be cool about it. After all its quite normal for that scenario. All the extra tongue out etc you might just not call that female back out.how would you handle this? i hate to be the ''i would do this i would do that '' guy but it would be interesting for him to try it with me
look how quickly the women on twitter immediately jump to the defense of the woman
''dont be controlling''??
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what if you didnt know, i didnt even know till nowIf I knew thats how that normally goes with his customers I'd have to be cool about it. After all its quite normal for that scenario. All the extra tongue out etc you might just not call that female back out.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
guess its different for everybodyI literally see nothing wrong with that video. This youtuber guy is full of insecurity. How else is that chick supposed to eat a 6 inch piece of meat? Try and grab it off the knife? Cmon man everyone knows Salt Bae. his name is Salt Bae for a reason. Because woman found him attractive and smooth. Reality is, he's a Turkish Muslim man who is married. What i'm trying to say is he's a modest guy, but he has a great way with customers. It's awesome and its the reason why celebrities make sure to visit his restaurant when they are in Dubai.
You go to a magic stage show and the magician makes a couple sexual innuendos withyour girl, what are you going to do? cry? go fight him?call her a hoe? i mean c'mon. some dudes need to grow up
Id say this is unacceptable.what if you didnt know,
Salt Bae is getting famous for turning women into monkey branching who_res, or so it seems... Check out this clip from a few months ago
Girl twerks Salt Bae when Brother/BF runs in
eşoğlu eşek....leave the Turks out of it!Skanks gonna skank. I bet if that Salt Bae tried the same thing in Turkey he wouldn't survive for 3 days.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
unnacceptable. smhSalt Bae is getting famous for turning women into monkey branching who_res, or so it seems... Check out this clip from a few months ago
Girl twerks Salt Bae when Brother/BF runs in
Its all insecurity. That's all it is. Look at how weak men are responding to a video of a girl that's not even theirs. it's weakness.guess its different for everybody
its a masculine skill to know how to handle another man hitting on your girl.
it comes with wisdom and experience, if you just let random dudes disrespect you by thinking its ok to make a sexual pass at her she will lose respect and attraction i know this from personal experience.
its not acceptable , its not cool . apparently he does this with alot of people, future being the only grown man who didnt eat out of salt dudes hand ( i also refuse to call him salt bae) so maybe he is just ignorant , and doesnt know any better. how to handle guys hitting on your girl you ask ? well in this situation i just would have stole the meat and ate it myself , no big scene here , no yelling no fighting . that would be the wrong move and actually shows weakness.
but i wouldnt advise ignoring it, just simply have a masculine tone and body language , and calmly but very seriously and firmly communicate (with your body language and tone ) that you will not be conquered easily.
for example , lions hang out in groups called prides , the males come looking to kill all the cubs and its up to the males in the pride to protect them,if the invading males succeed in killing the cubs and males , the females go into heat basically to have more cubs.
could you imagine a male lion sitting back thinking ''oh well he's a smooth seductive lion, i shouldnt be insecure here ''
how ridiculous would that look?
masculinity is toxic until she heres a noise down stairs or in the attic in the middle of the night - unknown
.. dont be so quick to call yourself insecure just because you dont like the way it feels when a guy is trying to fukk your girl in front of you.
this is a classic feminist technique to avoid accountability or responsibility.
once im aware of this , hard pullback. because thats all it is , a sh!t test to see if im gonna tolerate disrespect. If you're dating a nympho or a girl who acts a certain way, then you should have been aware of her personality.
The thing that you don't understand is when you're an insecure beta male, if they knew it going into the relationship, they're probably in it to use you from the get. If they didn't know but found out later, some girls will take joy in playing on your weaknesses because powerful women are the kryptonite of weak men. So while you act like "oh man shes going to go crazy htinking about what girl i am with next", she's really laughing at how you were to weak to handle her and probably talkin sh.t about you to one of your friends that is actually going to give her D.ck without wondering about what else she has going on, or if she acts flirty with a celebrity like Salt Bae.once im aware of this , hard pullback. because thats all it is , a sh!t test to see if im gonna tolerate disrespect
she can be a plate but she is not eating at the table , its that simple.
you're right she will be worried about me while she's going crazy thinking about what girl im with after i drop her ass like a missile.
good point very interesting , everybodys talking about the girls disrespect , which i agree she was disrepectful
but he should have slapped that piece of meet of the knife and gave him the no no sign, nobody is talking about the dudes lack of confidence to check salt dude. ??
So if your "strong" you can absorb her disrespect and it shouldn't bother you? I don't agree.The thing that you don't understand is when you're an insecure beta male, if they knew it going into the relationship, they're probably in it to use you from the get. If they didn't know but found out later, some girls will take joy in playing on your weaknesses because powerful women are the kryptonite of weak men.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.