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Difficulty making financial decisions

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Probably females have more difficulty than men with this.

The three things I keep reminding myself is to
1. remember what value system is important to me
and
2. prioritise what must be done
and
3. determine all the facts and discover what the unknown variables are

Yet I still have a delay in committing to a final decision. I need a personal accountant or trustee, I think. Maybe a coach.
 

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christie said:
Probably females have more difficulty than men with this.

The three things I keep reminding myself is to
1. remember what value system is important to me
and
2. prioritise what must be done
and
3. determine all the facts and discover what the unknown variables are

Yet I still have a delay in committing to a final decision. I need a personal accountant or trustee, I think. Maybe a coach.
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Coming from a past of part time futures/options trading background, the One killer to successful financial investments/matters is becoming emotionally or fantasy involved in the possible outcome.
An outside professional perspective is the Only way to go if the financial aspect isn’t your strong suit, but bottom line, You always approve of your options…
 
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billtx49 said:
Coming from a past of part time futures/options trading background, the One killer to successful financial investments/matters is becoming emotionally or fantasy involved in the possible outcome.
An outside professional perspective is the Only way to go if the financial aspect isn’t your strong suit, but bottom line, You always approve of your options…
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"I always approve of my options"

Like, that's what's stopping me from deciding? Too many options?

Or like, a warning to me to make sure I'm the one who has final say?

Or like I'm overthinking this and forgetting occam's razor or k.i.s.s.?



I'm such a creative problemsolver that I'm already spinning tangents off of tangents and getting an emotional boost from what I fantasize the results will be.

Perfect heads up you gave me. Thanks.
 
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