"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Welcome Back: Lay Report 10

nicksaiz65

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Hey guys! I've been off SS a bit to focus on my life, and self improvement. But I'm back now. I wanted to type up a LR that I had a little while back, and share it with the forum.

So that weekend, I went out to the bar to hang out and do some more approaches. I ended up running into a girl that I had approached in the past. I was able to kiss close her, but not bang her last time.

I was feeling extremely social that night, so on the fly I organized an after party at my house to shoot some pool and have some drinks. I was able to get a good amount of people over, and of course I invited the girl over.

I invited her upstairs to take a shot with me. After a bit of conversation, I was making out with her. She said, "We should totally go do a quickie right now." I pulled her to my room, pulled down my pants and told her to suck my d!ck, after that we were banging.

After that I returned to the party. It was a good time, lots of drinks, some gas, and shooting pool.
I'm pleased with this interaction. I'm going to continue to Cold Approach heavy, so that I can get more leads and bang them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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Hey guys! I've been off SS a bit to focus on my life, and self improvement. But I'm back now. I wanted to type up a LR that I had a little while back, and share it with the forum.

So that weekend, I went out to the bar to hang out and do some more approaches. I ended up running into a girl that I had approached in the past. I was able to kiss close her, but not bang her last time.

I was feeling extremely social that night, so on the fly I organized an after party at my house to shoot some pool and have some drinks. I was able to get a good amount of people over, and of course I invited the girl over.

I invited her upstairs to take a shot with me. After a bit of conversation, I was making out with her. She said, "We should totally go do a quickie right now." I pulled her to my room, pulled down my pants and told her to suck my d!ck, after that we were banging.

After that I returned to the party. It was a good time, lots of drinks, some gas, and shooting pool.
I'm pleased with this interaction. I'm going to continue to Cold Approach heavy, so that I can get more leads and bang them.
Your new norm
 

fastlife

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Good stuff. Can’t remember if you’ve graduated yet by now, but make sure to hold onto this mentality of socializing and creating connections with people and being open to adventure.

A lot of guys get caught up in the rat race, relationships, etc. and insulate themselves. A few years of that, and it’s very easy to jack your subcomms all up. Balance is important and there’ll be seasons in life where you have to put your nose to the grindstone—but don’t forget to maintain. Props.
 
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