I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Jamming that, I walk into a room feeling like a crisp hundred dollar bill.
No crinkles, no creases...ready to mingle and feel a little tingle
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Good way to embrace the cold. The cold is bracing and toughens like nothing else.I'm not into camping for the most part but I recently started up my winter mountaineering hikes and training ruck marches. Love getting out in this cold air with all my gear and stuff.
I hate sleeping in a tent -- just feel too vulnerable, to be honest -- but I love being in the wilderness. Hiking has been my go to over the years, but I've considered getting an offroad bicycle. Any experience?I'm not into camping for the most part but I recently started up my winter mountaineering hikes and training ruck marches. Love getting out in this cold air with all my gear and stuff.
Oh yeah. I was just telling two friends today that I need to take pictures of the crazy amount of rocks/rock scrambling I have to do on this mountain trail I'm focusing on. I can easily twist an ankle or break something on this one. Will see what happens in a few days.Good way to embrace the cold. The cold is bracing and toughens like nothing else.
Must be organised at packing your pack. Good skill to have.
If you take any interesting nature pictures, please share them here.
A decade ago, I went through a phase where I was taking cold showers, exclusively. I'd read somewhere that it was somehow healthy, and it seemed like a challenge, so fvck it, why not.Good way to embrace the cold. The cold is bracing and toughens like nothing else.
I'm seconding everything you just said. I would definitely find a sturdy mountain bike for yourself (and a helmet). A hardtail with the shocks up front. No need for dual-suspension unless you want to spend thousands or ride in serious enough terrain/go downhill mountain bicycling a lot. I started out riding BMX and racing a little bit, which is cool but I eventually grew up. Then I switched over to road bicycling pretty heavily, but that I DO NOT recommend with all the texting & driving, or whatever 100's of new distractions drivers are caught up in now. See what you can get because I was just told that the market for them is stiff amid this pandemic new or used. Go mountain biking or ride an assault bike at the gym if you need to lose a bunch of fat.I hate sleeping in a tent -- just feel to vulnerable, to be honest -- but I love being in the wilderness. Hiking has been my go to over the years, but I've considered getting an offroad bicycle. Any experience?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I've tried the cold shower many times when we used to vacation in the logging woods on the Bay of Fundy every summer. Its certainly ok if you can go out in the sun right away.A decade ago, I went through a phase where I was taking cold showers, exclusively. I'd read somewhere that it was somehow healthy, and it seemed like a challenge, so fvck it, why not.
I only did it for a few months, but holy sh1t, I will never forget the experience. You wanna see a quick shower?! Lol
I still haven't tried a GoPro. That would be fun to relive a relaxing hike afterwards by watching it.Oh yeah. I was just telling two friends today that I need to take pictures of the crazy amount of rocks/rock scrambling I have to do on this mountain trail I'm focusing on. I can easily twist an ankle or break something on this one. Will see what happens in a few days.
Nah man, I'm already fit. I was just thinking it would be fun.I'm seconding everything you just said. I would definitely find a sturdy mountain bike for yourself (and a helmet). A hardtail with the shocks up front. No need for dual-suspension unless you want to spend thousands or ride in serious enough terrain/go downhill mountain bicycling a lot. I started out riding BMX and racing a little bit, which is cool but I eventually grew up. Then I switched over to road bicycling pretty heavily, but that I DO NOT recommend with all the texting & driving, or whatever 100's of new distractions drivers are caught up in now. See what you can get because I was just told that the market for them is stiff amid this pandemic new or used. Go mountain biking or ride an assault bike at the gym if you need to lose a bunch of fat.
I was also just getting into the stoics at the time, so I was finding ways to challenge myself, mostly by depriving myself of common necessities.I've tried the cold shower many times when we used to vacation in the logging woods on the Bay of Fundy every summer. Its certainly ok if you can go out in the sun right away.
Dipping into the Bay of Fundy itself was always cold too, even midsummer.
Cold water is a challenge all right.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Seneca said:The founder of the universe, who assigned to us the laws of life, provided that we should live well, but not in luxury. Everything needed for our well-being is right before us, whereas what luxury requires is gathered by many miseries and anxieties. Let us use this gift of nature and count it among the greatest things.
Yes.I was also just getting into the stoics at the time, so I was finding ways to challenge myself, mostly by depriving myself of common necessities.
I tried out intermittent fasting and counting calories (which I still do to this day). I also tried my hand -- or lack there of -- at not jacking off for about 3 months.
All good experiences, in hindsight. I learned a lot from them.
It's like Seneca says, and I'm paraphrasing here: it's not that you have to go without; it's about proving to yourself that you can.