"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yeah, im just here for fun. One month then might hit up a different less touristy Mexican city. The tourists here can be a bit annoying. It's that typical European and US instagram selfie crowd. And the Mexican women on average here just seem so so.
My biggest issue though seems to be chronic fatigue after going to the beach each day. I'm not sure if its just the combo of the sun and walking so much when i go plus swimming ofcourse or i just got freakin covid.
I went today brought a bottle of wine did my usual swimming first then tried to walk to a place under some shade near the water to start drinking, but i felt pass out tired fatigued which is weird because i have never felt like this before.
Some pasty average looking European girl walked up to me today and asked if i was okay. I was like i guess im sun fatigued and she said well im very drunk so we match. Lmao. I told her no thanks not interested. Her friend called me rude. Was so tired i could gaf less about them at that moment. Walked home havent drank, but begrudgingly brought a subway sandwich home hoping it will give me some energy and about to take a nap. This fatigue stuff sucks though. Maybe its just the sun here in Mexico.
Prague has been invaded by us brits on stag does, lads on weekend pissups, sex tourist type trips for 30 years.
Can't speak for cold approach, but I'd be surprised if most decent local women are receptive to men on holiday approaching.
Can't speak for cold approach, but I'd be surprised if most decent local women are receptive to men on holiday approaching.
Women don’t like them either. I’ve never had one complain about me pulling it off and continuing. It has resulted in the clap, however, and that antibiotic shot is expensive.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Maybe she thought you were muy pequeno when she saw your chorizo...
Try Cartegena, Colombia. Can't go wrong with it. It is also a warm place and if all you want is sex, you can get both Colombian or Venezuelan 8-9 young girls if you don't mind paying for it. A lot of them can be had for $45. It's pretty much the same you would spend on dinner with a mediocre older girl with no lay guarantees. I'm just talking from a purely financial and sex perspective. Last time I was there, I fvcked 10 girls under 22yo in 7 days. I was tired after my vacation ended to say the least...
Stay away from Subway. Lab reports show they use only 50-60% real chicken meat with the rest in soy by products. Soy = raises Estrogen levels and is what ultimately contributed to my temporary ED when I used to eat it on the regular.
Lol doubtful....anyways could care less now. It's not like was dating material. Pnd at best.
I probably have covid guys. Just went to a packed bar a nightclub last night.
Some late 60 yearish old man maybe even in his 70s was in the first packed bar last night i went to chasing this ugly fat mexican girl who had previously had been trying to get with me until i rejected her. She looked like a used up pro to me. But anyways i asked arent you worried about covid?
He told me he goes out every night and a heart attack is probably going to get him sooner than covid will lol. I admired his upbeat mindset but at the same time felt a bit bad for him being that age out in a bar in Mexico chasing some 3/10 skank around. He finally managed to pull this fatty away from all the other men she was trying to talk to and got her home i guess. To each and their own i guess.
I was headed there instead of mexico until they started requiring a negative covid test. So i just said **** it and went down here. Cartengena looks very interesting though. I love Venezuelan and Columbian women.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.