“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Pm856

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Hey fellow djs.

How come we can be alpha and really high value with some women ( beautiful too), but beta-vibes with others? Is it a process?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alpha and Beta are concepts relating to men alone, women have no bearing on the hierarchy of men whatsoever.
 

ThisIsSparta

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Hey fellow djs.

How come we can be alpha and really high value with some women ( beautiful too), but beta-vibes with others? Is it a process?
It could depend on how hard you are TRYING to get the woman or if you are not TRYING at all.

Are you TRYING to make them like you or are they pulled in by your gravity?
 

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I think I know what you are trying to ask.

I believe part of that is how the woman is and how they make you feel. If they comply and gives you a lot of respect in the beginning, they make you feel comfortable and make you let down your guard in a way. This can bring out beta type vibes. This is not a bad thing necessarily and can indicate that you guys just may have a more compatible and/or stronger bond.

As long as you don't pedestalize her, remain steadfast in your purpose, standards, discipline, leadership and be willing to challenge her or call her out on anything that doesn't sit well with you(after having viewed through an objective lense), you shouldn't worry about those things.

Being a good man is a combo of alpha/beta.
 

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There was a legit 5 that would make me weak kneed and borderline around her at a time when I had plenty of success with much more attractive woman. I think "cute" women tend to draw the beta out more than hot.

Another thing is that I tend to view tall women as not interested in me, so revert to sexual "work personality" mode around them. Even after im proven wrong and they make the first move, its difficult for me to revert out of that initial frame for some reason.
good remark with the cute vs hot woman

I saw that I am more beta let”s say with cute girls , than I am with hot ones

I think the reason is that cute girls give out a more vulnerable vibe , which in return makes the guy not be as hard as he would normally be with people that do not give this vulnerability vibe

and this vibe also makes you to take a more caring stance
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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