article: Why sexual empowerment screws women - The only winners from sex-positive porniness are men

[christie]

Everything is fake and an illusion in life nowadays, why not females (and some males).

awww, disappointed thoughts like these from guys are what stops me from wearing makeup regularly and colouring hair regularly. I don't want to be fake.

Plus my Dad never encouraged it in my mother or me, although I have been able to amaze him with making my eyelashes look like "spiders". He said it in an admiring voice. lol

I always had a signature minimal look with dark red lipstick, black eyeliner and mascara. Seems neutral/accepted enough of a style over the decades that I just never learned another way.

Its just going to have to depend on whatever dominant male in my life likes, I guess.

 

[RickTheToad]

awww, disappointed thoughts like these from guys are what stops me from wearing makeup regularly and colouring hair regularly. I don't want to be fake.

Plus my Dad never encouraged it in my mother or me, although I have been able to amaze him with making my eyelashes look like "spiders". He said it in an admiring voice. lol

I always had a signature minimal look with dark red lipstick, black eyeliner and mascara. Seems neutral/accepted enough of a style over the decades that I just never learned another way.

Its just going to have to depend on whatever dominant male in my life likes, I guess.

Nothing wrong with makeup, but that is what it is... An illusion.

 

[christie]

Nothing wrong with makeup, but that is what it is... An illusion.

it also seems to be a determining factor in being able to jump up 1-2 Hb point ratings. With alot of men they don't look shoulder up though, I know, lol

 

[RickTheToad]

it also seems to be a determining factor in being able to jump up 1-2 Hb point ratings. With alot of men they don't look shoulder up though, I know, lol

It's a billion dollar industry for a reason.

 

[christie]

It's a billion dollar industry for a reason.

someone should tell women they're wasting their money on fakeness that's not even looked at by men, not really. The woman's body shape is her attractiveness. Money should be spent on fitness.

Learning from that book Estrogeneration about the estrogenic dangers found in colouring, makes me think I should throw out what makeup I do have. Not call that theatrical makeup artist. Save that money for improving below the shoulders.

And invest money on hi-vis running pants or a better yoga mat instead.

 

[metalwater]

someone should tell women they're wasting their money on fakeness that's not even looked at by men, not really. The woman's body shape is her attractiveness. Money should be spent on fitness.

Learning from that book Estrogeneration about the estrogenic dangers found in colouring, makes me think I should throw out what makeup I do have. Not call that theatrical makeup artist. Save that money for improving below the shoulders.

And invest money on hi-vis running pants or a better yoga mat instead.

the other thing that is worth spending on is modeling school. I can see the difference in girls that have learned how vs not. Doesn't have to be a model, just learn how. the pose/walk/posture/smile it can be learned and makes a huge impact.

 

[christie]

the other thing that is worth spending on is modeling school. I can see the difference in girls that have learned how vs not. Doesn't have to be a model, just learn how. the pose/walk/posture/smile it can be learned and makes a huge impact.

I agree. I was in a modelling course when I was 11. It was helpful to learn how to move gracefully and gently. They taught speech and tone/volume too. It was only at the YWCA, but still a good course. I have watched some of Cynthia L's posture and walking youtube videos too for some good reminders.

 

[Stoic]

Nothing wrong with makeup, but that is what it is... An illusion.

This is why a lot of inexperienced men get intimidated by women. Look fantastic with all that make up and glitter. And when it comes off...you see all the flaws and just realize there just average and nothing to out on a pedestal.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is why a lot of inexperienced men get intimidated by women. Look fantastic with all that make up and glitter. And when it comes off...you see all the flaws and just realize there just average and nothing to out on a pedestal.

Most people are avg

 

[Stoic]

Most people are avg

Yup...by definition that is true.

 

[EyeBRollin]

This is the female that says she got into clubs for free..

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I call BS on her access and her article.

she may have 20 years prior. All it takes is a fit body, a face full of makeup, and a good push-up bra.

 

[Stoic]

Yup...by definition that is true.

Young guys that are still learning...when they see women in clubs and bars all done up should remind themselves to imagine them without the make up without the heels enhancing there hips that they are just average.

Same with OLD. No reason to put these women on pedestal...they rarely look like their pics...they are nothing special..they often look worse in real life then even there worst pics seem to suggest.

Maybe this would stop the woman leadership here especially in the west.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Young guys that are still learning...when they see women in clubs and bars all done up should remind themselves to imagine them without the make up without the heels enhancing there hips that they are just average.

Same with OLD. No reason to put these women on pedestal...they rarely look like their pics...they are nothing special..they often look worse in real life then even there worst pics seem to suggest.

Maybe this would stop the woman leadership here especially in the west.

i don’t think guys understand how rare HB8+ actually are. Most women by definition are average which is 4-6 range. Even some of the chicks I see posted in this forum are more in the average range than they are pretty.

 

[B80]

i don’t think guys understand how rare HB8+ actually are. Most women by definition are average which is 4-6 range. Even some of the chicks I see posted in this forum are more in the average range than they are pretty.

Without doubt. Can almost look like totally different people the next morning with no makeup on.

Makes it more baffling how full of themselves some women can be at times.

There aren't there many truely good looking women without makeup out there and theyre unlikely to be available in clubs for one night stands on a regular basis. Attractive yes, but most really aren't anything special once you strip away the camouflage and I include the girl I'm currently seeing in that category. Gets plenty of looks and male attention when we re out, but looks totally different with no makeup, dishevelled hair the next day.

 

[Lookatu]

Young guys that are still learning...when they see women in clubs and bars all done up should remind themselves to imagine them without the make up without the heels enhancing there hips that they are just average.

Same with OLD. No reason to put these women on pedestal...they rarely look like their pics...they are nothing special..they often look worse in real life then even there worst pics seem to suggest.

Maybe this would stop the woman leadership here especially in the west.

I agree.

Just do a google search on all the top looking gals in the media and you'll see that less than 10% has natural beauty without any aids.
This one comes to mind...Sofia Vergara of Modern Family sitcom.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

This is the female that says she got into clubs for free..

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I call BS on her access and her article.

i'd get some dome

 

[EyeBRollin]

I agree.

Just do a google search on all the top looking gals in the media and you'll see that less than 10% has natural beauty without any aids.
This one comes to mind...Sofia Vergara of Modern Family sitcom.

Man she looks hit. Smh. Disgusting.

 

[Lookatu]

Man she looks hit. Smh. Disgusting.

Yup
That's some reality dose for those that are taking women at "face" value. literally. LOL
Wake up gentlemen and look past the mirage...

Always assume women are ugly to boost your confidence.
Always ask what a women can provide besides her looks and what's in between her legs to prevent you from investing too much too soon.
This is the mentality ALL guys should have.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yup
That's some reality dose for those that are taking women at "face" value. literally. LOL
Wake up gentlemen and look past the mirage...

Always assume women are ugly to boost your confidence.
Always ask what a women can provide besides her looks and what's in between her legs to prevent you from investing too much too soon.
This is the mentality ALL guys should have.

Looks aint even a "investment", its a bait.

 

[RickTheToad]

Man she looks hit. Smh. Disgusting.

Still looks pretty hot to me.