In2theGame
Master Don Juan
So my girlfriend and I were having a conversation again a few days ago and she asked me a question. She said "do you think you can have sex with only me for the rest of your life?" a part of me wanted to respond with a "safe" and "pleasant" answer but then I said to myself, not to be phony and fake. I told her "Honestly, for a guy like me I don't think that's possible, so no". She got upset and even cried a little but after a while she texted me and said that "I love you with all my heart so please don't break it but I want you to know I always appreciate your 100% honesty and promise to do whatever I can to make daddy happy" - Yes, I taught her to refer to me as daddy.
It made me really think about everything and wondering if I'm the problem in terms of not being satisfied "sexually" (key word: sexually) with one Woman because other than the desire for sexual variety, my girlfriend is great with everything else. She cooks, cleans, does what I ask her to do and hardly ever gives me push back on anything I ask of her, so it's not a problem in that regard. I went on a small binge of looking on google and reddit and I have found many Men saying how they could never sexually want another Woman other than their girlfriend of Wife. For whatever reason, I just cannot fully believe that. Do I think it's impossible? no, definitely not impossible but biologically speaking, i just don't see how that's a Man's true desire.
It makes me wonder if ...
I think my mind is trying to find any "blue pill" cell in my body to rationalize this but since my eyes have been opened to Women for the last 10 years, I can no longer unsee what I have already seen and experienced in the last decade when it comes to Women. One Man on reddit gave a pretty good thorough explanation on how Men biologically prefer a multitude of Women sexually and forget it,.... They crucified him on there. Especially the Women but his explanation made a lot of sense.
It made me really think about everything and wondering if I'm the problem in terms of not being satisfied "sexually" (key word: sexually) with one Woman because other than the desire for sexual variety, my girlfriend is great with everything else. She cooks, cleans, does what I ask her to do and hardly ever gives me push back on anything I ask of her, so it's not a problem in that regard. I went on a small binge of looking on google and reddit and I have found many Men saying how they could never sexually want another Woman other than their girlfriend of Wife. For whatever reason, I just cannot fully believe that. Do I think it's impossible? no, definitely not impossible but biologically speaking, i just don't see how that's a Man's true desire.
It makes me wonder if ...
- The majority of Men were just never good with seducing Women so they are happy with just having one sexually
- Men like me are few and we have a "problem" with not being able to be sexually satisfied with one Woman - I say "problem" because you know,... society shames Men that think like this.
- The majority of Men do in fact want multiple Women but they either never verbalize it or don't have the "game" to pull that off so they settle.
I think my mind is trying to find any "blue pill" cell in my body to rationalize this but since my eyes have been opened to Women for the last 10 years, I can no longer unsee what I have already seen and experienced in the last decade when it comes to Women. One Man on reddit gave a pretty good thorough explanation on how Men biologically prefer a multitude of Women sexually and forget it,.... They crucified him on there. Especially the Women but his explanation made a lot of sense.
- Does society socially program and condition Men to feel like having one special Woman sexually is enough?
- Do you think you can be with one Women sexually for the remainder of your life?
- Do Men suppress their true sexual desires so they avoid shaming?
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