"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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All of my favorite posters have been banned, bill.

They were all far from polite conversationalists.
That's because instead of saying "I find your ideas and course of action retarded because X, Y and Z" they said "you're a f@ggot" or some other direct personal insult.

Criticism is really important on this forum. I myself have been very harsh countless times, but instead of just aggressively hurling personal insults I try making constructive arguments about why I think what they're doing is stupid. I don't tell guys that they are stupid, big difference.

Many of your banned favorite posters often made great points, were good at cutting through the bullsh!t and didn't sugar coat it. The problem was that it got too personal and they couldn't stop themselves from throwing senseless insults at everyone who challenged them instead of using reasoning. It caused all sorts of issues on the forum as members retaliated and it infested every god damn discussion, rapidly degrading it into a sh!t throwing contest.

Such behavior kills fruitful discussions.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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but we're best friends now......?!:cool: have a good day man.

We all get that you miss spaz, he'll be tickled pink when he gets back.
You're my favorite poster.

Spaz already knows everything. We just skyped.

Here's a pic of us earlier this year, before covid hit

 

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You're funny my dear bored Tyte.....minus the pocket protector and 60's eyeglasses and add 2 or 3 inches in height and you're exactly how I pictured you(dark hair on right) or like the Van Wilder actor, wasshisname?


Spaz doesn't look like blondie, he looks like Jet Li a little bit. So I've imagined. Or like the alter ego of Rick.

There. Now its out that I've thought this(it felt too creepy that I had wrote that behind his back).

Its probably better posting publicly rather than PM's. You weren't believing my gender in PM's anyways, it is what it is.

P.S. I'm not him either. You know who you accused me of. Or him. or her/him.

I really am christie.
 
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That's because instead of saying "I find your ideas and course of action retarded because X, Y and Z" they said "you're a f@ggot" or some other direct personal insult.

Criticism is really important on this forum. I myself have been very harsh countless times, but instead of just aggressively hurling personal insults I try making constructive arguments about why I think what they're doing is stupid. I don't tell guys that they are stupid, big difference.

Many of your banned favorite posters often made great points, were good at cutting through the bullsh!t and didn't sugar coat it. The problem was that it got too personal and they couldn't stop themselves from throwing senseless insults at everyone who challenged them instead of using reasoning. It caused all sorts of issues on the forum as members retaliated and it infested every god damn discussion, rapidly degrading it into a sh!t throwing contest.

Such behavior kills fruitful discussions.
Again, I can't argue with that. All true.

But man, I miss burroughs. Fvcking legend
 

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Many banned people here over the years were also very popular. Rather than be humble about said popularity they let it go to their head and become assh0les. Just look at the list of members with the top 20 highest reaction scores. Good chance someone on that list will be banned soon. I have no one specific in mind, I just know the patterns. They play out over and over and over.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Many banned people here over the years were also very popular. Rather than be humble about said popularity they let it go to their head and become assh0les. Just look at the list of members with the top 20 highest reaction scores. Good chance someone on that list will be banned soon. I have no one specific in mind, I just know the patterns. They play out over and over and over.
Please let me know early when it’s my time. I will need time to prepare emotionally.:D
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah I remember that in his posts.

He also predicted the decline of PUA and surge of MGTOW.
Yeah, he used to spam it in every thread. With red ink. It was kind of annoying at the time. Turns out dude was a genius lol
 

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Get well soon, by the way.
Thanks very much. I don’t know if I mentioned I got taken down with two kidney stones on Thanksgiving. Brutal. I’m home now. I appreciate your well-wishes.
 

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Thanks very much. I don’t know if I mentioned I got taken down with two kidney stones on Thanksgiving. Brutal. I’m home now. I appreciate your well-wishes.
Two?!
My best friend had only one and he said it was the worst pain that he'd ever experienced. Wishing you a quick and painless recovery here as well.
 

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Yeah, but that's what's great about the internet: you can't punch me in the mouth.

Anonymity and no fear of repercussion is what's great about the internet.

You can't be brutally honest with people in real life, less you lose their friendship. On here, you can let it rain.

You know how many great things I've learned from @sshole posters on sousave? More than I have from people in real life.
TyTe, if u r reading this, then here's my advice to you.

Forums like these are like gardens that men created, where they get to think things and perhaps achieve some enlightenment along the way.

However it's always best to be a warrior in a garden then a gardener in war.

The real world we all step into everyday is war. You need to fight daily, not just to survive but to excel.

And for those of you that thinks it's better to train men into gardeners in a garden, well the results you see in urselfs, is the ultimate result of that way of thinking.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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