"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just finished reading "What do Women Want?: Adventures in the science of Female Desire"

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ill get this after "the red queen"
Sounds interesting. That study sounded interesting. To bad they couldnt do it and monitor day to day for 30 days or so. Different environments
Yes, definitely on the 30 days but Women would probably feel uncomfortable with a Vaginal sensor all day lol. The interesting thing is that Women themselves don't fully understand their sexuality. What I also found interesting is that Women felt very sad/depressed/upset that they no longer could get aroused by their long term partners. They didnt understand why and they wanted to feel sexual arousal and attraction but just couldnt. That was the point in the development of a female Viagra but failed. So what does this say? They got bored sexually to their partners even if they still desired the LTR/Marriage.

I guess when Women in marriages and long term partners stop having sexual excitement, they begin looking for that excitement outside the relationship. Their arousal's spiked when the partner was new or was a stranger.
 
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I think Women do focus on non sexual aspects such as wanting exclusivity in terms of bonding, closeness, togetherness, coupling, etc. However this is apart from their sexual desires & wants.

This is why although Women may want a long term relationship/marriage, their sexual lust and desires take them off the rails so to speak. Wanting new adventurous sexual experiences but when this happens, they feel conflicted because they want to bond to their current partner but their pvssy arousal is not agreeing with them. Now I can see how this can be hard on Women. They get internally conflicted.

Men in long term relationships/marriage wouldn't feel comfortable knowing this because they feel at some point, their partners could possibly stray.
 

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I think Women do focus on non sexual aspects such as wanting exclusivity in terms of bonding, closeness, togetherness, coupling, etc. However this is apart from their sexual desires & wants.

This is why although Women may want a long term relationship/marriage, their sexual lust and desires take them off the rails so to speak. Wanting new adventurous sexual experiences but when this happens, they feel conflicted because they want to bond to their current partner but their pvssy arousal is not agreeing with them. Now I can see how this can be hard on Women. They get internally conflicted.

Men in long term relationships/marriage wouldn't feel comfortable knowing this because they feel at some point, their partners could possibly stray.
Some extremely dominant and physical and sexual studs have submitted themselves into marriage. The usual bullsh1t assumptions around here is he married because he's not as able to pull females, not good in bed or weaker than other singles. Women these days want to control relationships. And if you're a strong and dominant man she'll want to beat him and win. I've seen quite a few situations where the side dudes were much weaker than the husband less masculine essence. It's just when she starts that path of control and dominance she will refuse to respect her husband and intentionally do things to diminish his image piece by piece. One lady close to our family did it and in 20 years she haven't found even a man as 1/2 the man she did dirty.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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