"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Auto rejection or **** test?

MagicMikee

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Guys long story short

To put it into context I'm a tall handsome guy, big **** and give her mind-blowing orgasms she never got. We ****ed the first night we met.

Girl wants a relationship and willing to do whatever I say" her words.

Always came to my city to see me twice each week and its been 3 weeks.

I'm holding the relationship off

Pissed me off at one weekend because she will **** test me how much I like her or not by saying she'll move back to my city but say a different thing next time. Told her to stay at her city and we can see each other once a week, I'm used to this. She nearly cried.

I was cold to her that following week and she knows. She also start turning cold. Naturally I went colder than her. She texted she "can't do this anymore". I replied OK.

Asked her to come to my city on sat (as usual),she said she can't (didn't give me a reason and I didn't ask). Just replied ok. Offered to come next week but let her know when and I said I'll let you know.

Then on Sunday I replied to her how r u text of sat. She said she can't come to my city anymore and it's "outside her control" and thst she is sorry. I said how many times you want to change what you say. She text back "I'm done"

Didn't reply to her text.

I can't be sure if this is a **** test or auto rejection.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is a BS post. An 18 inch flaccid penis would be close to 2 ft erect. Anyone buying this guy is a gullible one.

 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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EyeBRollin

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I’ll assume this is a serious post:

The number one issue here is distance. This was doomed from the start. Long distance relationships do NOT work. If she’s more than an hour away its dead before it begins. 30 minutes to an hour is sketchy enough as it is...

Asked her to come to my city on sat (as usual),she said she can't (didn't give me a reason and I didn't ask). Just replied ok. Offered to come next week but let her know when and I said I'll let you know.

Then on Sunday I replied to her how r u text of sat. She said she can't come to my city anymore and it's "outside her control" and thst she is sorry. I said how many times you want to change what you say. She text back "I'm done"
This is all bullshvt known as “game playing.” We see too much of this on these forums.

Rule #1: Less talking, more ****ing

Cut the BS and close. Give her a specific day and time to come by so the two of you can hook up. That’s all that needs to be done. This back and forth indecisiveness is what women do.
 

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I’ll assume this is a serious post:

The number one issue here is distance. This was doomed from the start. Long distance relationships do NOT work. If she’s more than an hour away its dead before it begins. 30 minutes to an hour is sketchy enough as it is...



This is all bullshvt known as “game playing.” We see too much of this on these forums.

Rule #1: Less talking, more ****ing

Cut the BS and close. Give her a specific day and time to come by so the two of you can hook up. That’s all that needs to be done. This back and forth indecisiveness is what women do.
Appreciate your reply bro and yes many people are taking the 18 inch too seriously.

In my country 1-2hr is pretty normal travel time.

I wasn't sure if she was in auto rejection (as she was getting cold in response) and may decide to cut her loss when I refuse to do her bidding(a **** test).

But then it seems like a strong arm move and to get my chasing (she did all the chasing before) when she just text I'm done out of the blue when I pointed out her flip flopping bs.

Anyway since she said im done (dunno what exactly she meant as we didn't start anything) and she refused my invite. My default mode is no contact
 
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It's quite easy. She was looking for a relationship and you weren't. She decided to cut her losses and move on. It's very simple.
Maybe. But she did something to piss me off and it's up to her to make amends, not make additional request from me. She had the opportunity to fix this by visiting me.

What made me doubt as to why it was to make me chase was the way she change her story as to why she can't come to my city and her reaction seems off. A girl who isn't trying to make me chase could have phase the request a better way.
 
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That was a sh!t test and you failed.
She was looking for certain answers from you and you weren't giving it to her.

When a chick goes from warm to cold after recent conversation like that, it means a sh!t test was failed.
We've all been there before and know what it's like.
Sometimes it's just best to move on.
 

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That was a sh!t test and you failed.
She was looking for certain answers from you and you weren't giving it to her.

When a chick goes from warm to cold after recent conversation like that, it means a sh!t test was failed.
We've all been there before and know what it's like.
Sometimes it's just best to move on.
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