How would you handle this (**** test maybe)

[Dam44]

I was texting a girl I had gone on a date with recently. I asked her what mischief she was up to that day. Then she replied she slept most of the day.

From there a playful convo starts, I tell her I'm coming for some sleep lessons. She plays along and there's a bit of banter.

Then there's a small brain joke that leads to this.

'Omo daada' means good boy/child. Basically, its what a parent or someone superior would say

How did i handle this? What would you have done instead?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

You must cater to her imagination, if she wants you to be something you dont want to be, remain neutral, a bit of resistance is fine, but do not let her imagination run dry, if she wants you to be a lil' sub, negotiate with her.

 

[Billtx49]

She said Baby followed by a thumbs up.
Don’t overthink it. I see it as positive.

 

[Dam44]

You must cater to her imagination, if she wants you to be something you dont want to be, remain neutral, a bit of resistance is fine, but do not let her imagination run dry, if she wants you to be a lil' sub, negotiate with her.

Could you show an example

 

[Dam44]

She said Baby followed by a thumbs up.
Don’t overthink it. I see it as positive.

Oh, maybe I was overthinking.
But I didn't overreact, right? Cos I didn't reply her msg after that

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Could you show an example

You'll know it when you see it and if you dont, youll know you missed it.

 

[Billtx49]

Oh, maybe I was overthinking.
But I didn't overreact, right? Cos I didn't reply her msg after that

Slight overreaction about her I’m the boss line. She probably just testing boundaries and you should have followed it with a joke…
Your fired followed by no reply sounds like
a mini-dump

 

[Dam44]

Slight overreaction about her I’m the boss line. She probably just testing boundaries and you should have followed it with a joke…
Your fired followed by no reply sounds like
a mini-dump

Hmm.
It doesn't seem too bad, I guess I will hit her up later

 

[Dam44]

I wouldn't worry too much. She seems playful.

Next time just play along with it (or ignore/reframe as a poster above said). There's a lot you can do with "good boy."

One thing about being the boss is you don't always have to throw your weight around. Always think of her as a little girl and you're like her daddy, amused at the silly little things she says and patting her on the head.

I get it now. Too bad I ended the interaction by my action. I guess I'll hit her up later.

I'm wondering what could be done with good boy, lol.

I'm not a bossy person actually. But I get the point now, just to keep it all playful

 

[Billtx49]

Hmm.
It doesn't seem too bad, I guess I will hit her up later

Good plan. Keep it playful like Sam said and throw in a situational or sexual joke or two and you’ll be good.