"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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article: Tattoos: A Disfiguring Epidemic

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he most highly tattooed demographic is women in their 20’s (several studies conclude close to 40%) which indicates a massive rejection of classically feminine traits. Women of today have traded in their feminine power of natural beauty for trite and meaningless “girl power individualism” by adding the outward ink markings. The true power of the feminine has been abandoned for the traditionally masculine procedure; and this has been to the detriment of tattooed women and how they are viewed. (And any society that allows their men to be feminized and their women to be masculinized will not survive more than two generations.
my opinion; A gal with a tat is a tramp. :down:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I should say that a very small tat, like one around the vajaya or on her buttock that is not visible when she is not naked would be OK. I remember meeting a gal that had an upper-arm tat like a sailor - this is what I ma talking about as the stamp of a tramp.
 

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I should say that a very small tat, like one around the vajaya or on her buttock that is not visible when she is not naked would be OK. I remember meeting a gal that had an upper-arm tat like a sailor - this is what I ma talking about as the stamp of a tramp.
just above her buttocks in the small of her back is literally called a 'tramp stamp' .....but I get what you mean Mature....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Been saying for years that excessive tattoos are a sign of mental illness. Somebody has to be a combination of both highly insecure and self absorbed to spend that much time, money and energy on something so patently irrelevant. Kinda like the chick with bright pink hair. Its such an obvious plea for attention that you need to run in the other direction.
 
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excessive tats are just as much of a red flag as dyed hair in my book
 

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I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes of tattos on women and even on men it forces me to observe the behaviour of such man looking for clues of impulsivity and herd thinking altought Im much more tolerant with men.

I dont need to deal with people that cant control emotions, needs so bad to fit in trends and desperately seek to fit in current subculture....plus I simply dont like it generally.

Someone say "ohh I needed that tat to remind me a special moment"..well ok if that moment was special why do you need a butterfly on your arm to remember it?
 

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Tattoos don't scare me. Hell I have two myself with more on the way.

Tattooed girls are just as hot as untattoed girls.
 

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Tattoos don't scare me. Hell I have two myself with more on the way.

Tattooed girls are just as hot as untattoed girls.
Hoes are ok to have tattoos.

I treat it as a 'warning' label. :rofl:

Thanks for the warning! :)

 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have no tattoos and never intend on getting one. I always said I would break that rule if my mum died, she did, still no tat.

IMO it diplays an unhappiness in what you naturally are. I have no desire to mark my body.

Would I get with a women that has tattoos? Well I will evaluate her complete character and being, and would never let a youthful, permanent fck up put me off a good thing.

In general I don't judge people on trivial things, you need to judge people on the person they are not the decisions they made at a naive place in life.
 

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I should say that a very small tat, like one around the vajaya or on her buttock that is not visible when she is not naked would be OK. I remember meeting a gal that had an upper-arm tat like a sailor - this is what I ma talking about as the stamp of a tramp.
No, that's even worse.
 

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# no tats just t1ts

I do see more and more girls with tattoos, specially online.
Some actually are attractive, but big horrible tattoos are making me swipe the other way.
A lot of insecure people these days...fked up by social media.
 

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Sadly, the most hooked-on-to-me gal in my life right now has a lot of tats (they're thin-lined so really no coloring, just black), plus unfortunately the pink, purple, whatever hair. She's obsessed over me 16 years older than her. None of the gals that are tat-free like me, like me, except single moms and women my age which is a no-go. These single moms keep pining for me (like 7+ years now), like I'm some sort of Willy Wonka golden ticket. They KNOW I've been single all this time and must have amassed quite a nest-egg, plus guys (and gals) who know me Talk (behind my back and tell conniving girls my business).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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