"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The entrapment of incels

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is "To Catch a Predator". It does not do a good service to link these issues to any incel case. First of all this guy is not incel if he got laid six times meeting women online. In this article this guys does not have enough sense to terminate contact at any hint of jail bait. Men from all walks of life, including married men and old guys can be a pervert or molester. You think fathers who molest their daughters are incel too. Come on.
 

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This is "To Catch a Predator". It does not do a good service to link these issues to any incel case. First of all this guy is not incel if he got laid six times meeting women online. In this article this guys does not have enough sense to terminate contact at any hint of jail bait. Men from all walks of life, including married men and old guys can be a pervert or molester. You think fathers who molest their daughters are incel too. Come on.
This guy is a subtype of incel - an escortcel.

Incels are the type of men that are so thirsty and unaware that they can get caught up in this dragnet when they were not looking for a 13 year old. Real 13 year olds are not advertising themselves for escort.
 

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This guy is a subtype of incel - an escortcel.

Incels are the type of men that are so thirsty and unaware that they can get caught up in this dragnet when they were not looking for a 13 year old. Real 13 year olds are not advertising themselves for escort.
The article did not say he paid for sex. I remember craiglist when it was legal here and escorts were listed under services.

If someone meets someone through the internet then that is their way of getting casual sex. Guy dont look like he can afford escorts anyway.

He should not deal with a girl that says she is 13 years old. Escortcel or not there is no excuse for stupidity.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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