"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fixing extreme approval/validation seeking personality

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Hi i watched a Red Pill Video today and it was about approval/validation seeking. Found out that this is something women usually do so it's feminine. A man doesn't need the approval of others. He just does what he wants to do and '' the tribe '' don't have to give him validation or approval.
Women are dependent on the tribe so they need that approval.
Women assimilated themselves in order to survive, men usually didn't do that. They died.

He gave many other examples but my question to you guys is how do i fix these obviously feminine behaviour in myself?
I'm someone who values others opinions way too much.
Whenever i go out i'm fixated on other people and their opinion on me. I want to get validated by other women, by my ex who dumped me, by almost everyone.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Baibars said:
Hi i watched a Red Pill Video today and it was about approval/validation seeking. Found out that this is something women usually do so it's feminine. A man doesn't need the approval of others. He just does what he wants to do and '' the tribe '' don't have to give him validation or approval.
Women are dependent on the tribe so they need that approval.
Women assimilated themselves in order to survive, men usually didn't do that. They died.

He gave many other examples but my question to you guys is how do i fix these obviously feminine behaviour in myself?
I'm someone who values others opinions way too much.
Whenever i go out i'm fixated on other people and their opinion on me. I want to get validated by other women, by my ex who dumped me, by almost everyone.
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Make yourself responsible and work your way up by keeping yourself accountable. Stop waiting for someone to help you. Impress yourself.
 
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