"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what I learnt From Being Flaked on 6 Times this weekend

Georgepithyou

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So i got 7 numbers last week through a combination of Tinder and daygame.
3 girls i texted all through out the week to build rapport
3 only for logistics
And the last one kept texting to a minimum and called her throughout the week

The 6 girls i texted all flaked, with the usual excuses like "I'm busy"
One just straight up said "thanks for the offer but no"

The only girl willing to show up was the one i called, we are about to go on a date later this afternoon.

It could be that my text game is weak or that i talked my way out of the poosey. But it seems to me girls apperciate men who still call. She even said "your thr first guy to just call me"

Next week I will try just calling every girl to see if this really works.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1) your text game probably needs work. I almost never get flaked on but I am a phenomenal texter. Show an example of a text convo you had so I can get a better idea if this is an issue.

2) Setting up a date and then ghosting until the date will get you flaked on a TON. You should maintain some contact in my opinion even if its just a few texts every other day. If you don't many women will see it as not really being interested in her. Others will disagree and that's fine, but I know what works for me. In fact most of the really good relationships I have been in we text each other pretty much daily from the time we started communicating until we break up. I am not talking about 24/7..sometimes it might only be 1 or 2 texts back and forth a day, other times more.
 

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It could be that my text game is weak or that i talked my way out of the poosey. But it seems to me girls apperciate men who still call. She even said "your thr first guy to just call me"

Next week I will try just calling every girl to see if this really works.
Good idea. I shall do the same when I get a number.
 

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I talk to a girl that has a guy message her everyday asking to meet up. She just ingores him. His girlfriend doesn't bang him and he just wants this girl to urinate on him in the shower. This girl is a big girl. He also has a small penis when this girl banged him and she was telling me about it.

She's just not horny enough a lot of the time to bang him but she does get horny from time to time or wants KFC and asks if he can bring some and then he gets his little secret fetish in the shower.

The guy is persistent and texts her everyday nearly it seems. He's broke as furk or to stingy to buy her kfc or pizza to get laid more often.

The lesson to be learnt from this is to be persistent to a point where you can get away with it, have something to offer the girl, and timing is also critical. You might have something to offer but your timing is off. You might not be persistent enough. I'd say you haven't got the first element or the last element. Having something to offer is fairly simple to get women. Your **** is a start.
 
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So i got 7 numbers last week through a combination of Tinder and daygame.
3 girls i texted all through out the week to build rapport
3 only for logistics
And the last one kept texting to a minimum and called her throughout the week

The 6 girls i texted all flaked, with the usual excuses like "I'm busy"
One just straight up said "thanks for the offer but no"

The only girl willing to show up was the one i called, we are about to go on a date later this afternoon.

It could be that my text game is weak or that i talked my way out of the poosey. But it seems to me girls apperciate men who still call. She even said "your thr first guy to just call me"

Next week I will try just calling every girl to see if this really works.
Calling girl is confident move this mean you not just fake profile

Sometimes ur game text is so good that no call needed
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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