"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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But that would give them more power over you.
Having low t would give all the world power over you, this makes you weak and not competitive. Not that something is wrong with that, but as long as you pushing yourself into competitive environments you probably want to be part of it or at least have to be
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Having low t would give all the world power over you, this makes you weak and not competitive. Not that something is wrong with that, but as long as you pushing yourself into competitive environments you probably want to be part of it or at least have to be
I'm going to assume this type of thread is meant for the younger members on here who have high libidos, drive and are in their prime of life. Once you are past a certain age, then fapping talk sort of loses relevancy especially if the libido is already too low.
 

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I'm going to assume this type of thread is meant for the younger members on here who have high libidos, drive and are in their prime of life. Once you are past a certain age, then fapping talk sort of loses relevancy especially if the libido is already too low.
What would you say about joe rogan? Or Mike Tyson going back fighting. They're both over their 50s and they're still killing like 30s. Would you assume their life is just a fight?
 

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I would guess that If you want to have a better life you might want to reconsider activivities from different perspectives. Fapping is important so it's worth thinking about it ones in a while.

One perspective is yes you can make it more fun with some techniques and mindgames. The important thing is that it can become an addiction. You start fapping because you are bored.

For that I would say it is ok to try to make fapping more challenging by making it more difficult for example by doing it without porn.
 

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I'm going to assume this type of thread is meant for the younger members on here who have high libidos, drive and are in their prime of life. Once you are past a certain age, then fapping talk sort of loses relevancy especially if the libido is already too low.
All topics are kind of ok as long as the standards are high regarding how you talk about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I would guess that If you want to have a better life you might want to reconsider activivities from different perspectives. Fapping is important so it's worth thinking about it ones in a while.

One perspective is yes you can make it more fun with some techniques and mindgames. The important thing is that it can become an addiction. You start fapping because you are bored.

For that I would say it is ok to try to make fapping more challenging by making it more difficult for example by doing it without porn.
I dont use porn.
 

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Bro you're lit af. Theres no way fapping is better than secks with a chicks. You're trippen hard.
 

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Isn't it funny there are so many love songs and songs about so many things but not fapping though it's a crucial activity even monkeys do it. Men did it for 100k years I guess.

Anyway I yt'ed fap song:

 

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I have fapped 3 times in three years. Last time i ejaculated was may.

Personally i feel more of a man when i dont fap. More powerful. Stronger for when an oppurtunity arises to fu'k a woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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One time I setup a threesome with two chicks. I was the only one who showed up. I still had a good time.
 

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still had a good time
lol
Sometime there's no choice. beside, two girls is too much stress as long as they're not into some lesbo hot stuff and need you only to say "oh I'm not into girls, that was just that guy who made us to do all these things"
 

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OP got banned again?

hopefully it’s permanent this time
dude a clown
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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