Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It can excite you. But sexual power and sexual energy is something inside of someone and it has nothing to do with looks at all. It's why some not so good in the face, but nice body men and women can get people addicted to their sex.
With this new encounter i agree with that, its not true at all that looks reflect a good sex.. Its the chemistries.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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With this new encounter i agree with that, its not true at all that looks reflect a good sex.. Its the chemistries.
The energy. Yours will excite her and hers will excite you ( super hard erections ). Keep hitting it stay on purpose you both will never get bored.
 

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The energy. Yours will excite her and hers will excite you ( super hard erections ). Keep hitting it stay on purpose you both will never get bored.
Hell yeah brother, thats what we are doing now.. Doing it right shell chase you day and night.
 

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It's always a source of frustration when a super hot girl has a loose p-ssy, or her vag stanks vs a 6 who can f-ck like a champ and does whatever you want her to do and then some.
Right on, cant agree less.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hell yeah brother, thats what we are doing now.. Doing it right shell chase you day and night.
Hell yeah brother, thats what we are doing now.. Doing it right shell chase you day and night.
I had one last 5 yrs. Fvcked 2-3 times a day. What fvcked it up was spending all my time under her so she wasn't missing me. She got bored and single female friends got in her ear. Had i stayed busy and kept my life strong outside her it could be kept going.
 
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I had one last 5 yrs. Fvcked 2-3 times a day. What fvcked it up was spending all my time under her so she wasn't missing me. She got bored and single female friends got in her ear. Had i stayed busy and kept my life strong outside her it could be kept going.
My new girl currently so playful and clingy, blowing my phone everyday, she let me do what i want and when i want with her, talking gay about her friends, dropping all her orbiters, it keep going strong. Afaik i didnt have to ask to see her or be with her everyday so far, she got great career and wealth, and she submits ti me.. I need this relationship and intimacy to grow.. Otherwise its dead to me.
 

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My new girl currently so playful and clingy, blowing my phone everyday, she let me do what i want and when i want with her, talking gay about her friends, dropping all her orbiters, it keep going strong. Afaik i didnt have to ask to see her or be with her everyday so far, she got great career and wealth, and she submits ti me.. I need this relationship and intimacy to grow.. Otherwise its dead to me.
Keep hitting it 3-5 days a week and your good. Have one day that you sleep over or spend alot of time. The others can be kept short. Guys lose em hitting only once a week or so and they get curious and try other sticks out.
 

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Keep hitting it 3-5 days a week and your good. Have one day that you sleep over or spend alot of time. The others can be kept short. Guys lose em hitting only once a week or so and they get curious and try other sticks out.
3-5 days is good numbers though, we have our own passion and we manage to have our time to be alone and meet when she wants it, i didnt have to initiate contacts as im as well busy with my own life and hers.. But when we do it will be a mind blowing sex.. She hit it like 15 orgasme a day.. And 2 hours play are just like an appetizers. As long as we admires respect each others and building trust, im overseeing the intimacy growth in this and leads to a meaningful life.
 

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3-5 days is good numbers though, we have our own passion and we manage to have our time to be alone and meet when she wants it, i didnt have to initiate contacts as im as well busy with my own life and hers.. But when we do it will be a mind blowing sex.. She hit it like 15 orgasme a day.. And 2 hours play are just like an appetizers. As long as we admires respect each others and building trust, im overseeing the intimacy growth in this and leads to a meaningful life.
Beauty
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It can excite you. But sexual power and sexual energy is something inside of someone and it has nothing to do with looks at all. It's why some not so good in the face, but nice body men and women can get people addicted to their sex.
That's actually what sexy means......sexual magnetism. It's different from hot which is looks only
 

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Update, this girl has making me going through dsm iv, high and low were there, think im going to Ljbf'ed her. Damn things get down real quick. This maybe as well the shortest relationship ive been.
 

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It can excite you. But sexual power and sexual energy is something inside of someone and it has nothing to do with looks at all. It's why some not so good in the face, but nice body men and women can get people addicted to their sex.
This 1000% I've had an ex that was the best sex ever had she was so passionately and loved to try kinky and new things. It was all about feeling and responding to that. We were both non judgmental and open with our bodies completely always slept naked I always loved when she make breakfast nude in the kitchen etc etc.

Then I have an ex that while hot and everyone thought she was sexy, just had no passion and was very self conscience of her body to the point were the sex was awkward. She was a low key ***** too with a high body count.
 

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This 1000% I've had an ex that was the best sex ever had she was so passionately and loved to try kinky and new things. It was all about feeling and responding to that. We were both non judgmental and open with our bodies completely always slept naked I always loved when she make breakfast nude in the kitchen etc etc.

Then I have an ex that while hot and everyone thought she was sexy, just had no passion and was very self conscience of her body to the point were the sex was awkward. She was a low key ***** too with a high body count.
Imagine that hi body count and sex sucked. Lady #1 must've been awesome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Happens with hookers too. Some of them are wild and passionate, and they don't need to be a 10 for that. But a lot of them are like dead fish. And yet they have sex all day. You'd think they'd be good at it.
 

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I rate them by:
- NATURAL LOOKS (L)
- CHARACTER&INTELLIGENCE (C/I)
- SEX APPEAL (SA)

I'm looking for LTR again and I found L-7 or 7.5 / C/I - 9 SA - 4 girl so she seems to be perfect for LTR (most of guys don't even notice her because she looks like a female nerd that doesn't flirt at all but when she dresses up she is border 8/10 cuz' slim, perky tits and sexy face). Thankfully most of guys are morons and go after high SA females (and low C/I most of the time...).

It would be cool to have side-plate though' - for STR's I simply cut out the C/I from rating (mostly because it's redundant)

Also, high C/I is much more difficult to observe than other attributes - I don't even want to enhance that girl's SA - mostly because she would be noticed by alpha males - I don't want that to happen.
Great choice mark, yeah girl with C/I plus passionate will be a rockstar to me, true Alphas wont go for SA because its too shallow and get decayed overtime, as well go with girl with virtue, they are precious and rare. Perky tits and slim body that my choice for sure.
 
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