I have a cousin who is a lot older then me and he really is getting me angry lately by his stupidity. I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice, want to vent, or hoping that you guys will learn from this. Maybe I'm looking for all three.
He is older, over weight, and balding. He owns several businesses and a home in another state. He also owns a home right by me. We are practically neighbors. For about a year now, he's had a 40 yr old Latina meth head living in his place in the spare bedroom. He met her off of Seeking Arrangements a year ago. You can't tell she does meth besides that shes as thin as a high school girl. Her face is a tad rough for my standards, but she is 40 yrs old. She wears a lot of makeup to hide it and dresses like she is 22. My cousin just thinks she's the hottest girl around. She lies to him and is playing him so badly its just sad. He has been out of state tending to his businesses since the end of May and won't be back here till October. Meanwhile, he is just letting this woman live in his place for free and he is getting nothing out of it.
She has no job. Her license is suspended and he is letting her drive around in one of his cars. She has an Only Fans and I think she does cam stuff on some website. She gets money from that and he recently told me he is spending 3 grand on her a month. He pays for her meth, gambling at the casino, weekly hair/nail salon appointment, cell phone, and all other expenses.
She gets mad at him really easily and then won't answer his calls or texts for days. The other week, I noticed some strange truck outside his place for two days. I told him about it later in the week and he checked his front door camera footage. She shut the camera off for the two days that truck was there. He turned a blind eye to it. He was going to finally kick her out this week after another argument. But, now he said that they had a good long talk and everything is fine. He told me he is in love with her.
He won't listen to me, my parents, or any family about this girl. My parents don't want her in there house and won't go to his now that she lives there. He had a bad child hood, so I'm not sure if this is why he is doing what he is doing. Sometimes I want to just cut him off but I would hate to stop talking to him because of a girl. Its getting really frustrating and I just can't seem to get through to him.
He is older, over weight, and balding. He owns several businesses and a home in another state. He also owns a home right by me. We are practically neighbors. For about a year now, he's had a 40 yr old Latina meth head living in his place in the spare bedroom. He met her off of Seeking Arrangements a year ago. You can't tell she does meth besides that shes as thin as a high school girl. Her face is a tad rough for my standards, but she is 40 yrs old. She wears a lot of makeup to hide it and dresses like she is 22. My cousin just thinks she's the hottest girl around. She lies to him and is playing him so badly its just sad. He has been out of state tending to his businesses since the end of May and won't be back here till October. Meanwhile, he is just letting this woman live in his place for free and he is getting nothing out of it.
She has no job. Her license is suspended and he is letting her drive around in one of his cars. She has an Only Fans and I think she does cam stuff on some website. She gets money from that and he recently told me he is spending 3 grand on her a month. He pays for her meth, gambling at the casino, weekly hair/nail salon appointment, cell phone, and all other expenses.
She gets mad at him really easily and then won't answer his calls or texts for days. The other week, I noticed some strange truck outside his place for two days. I told him about it later in the week and he checked his front door camera footage. She shut the camera off for the two days that truck was there. He turned a blind eye to it. He was going to finally kick her out this week after another argument. But, now he said that they had a good long talk and everything is fine. He told me he is in love with her.
He won't listen to me, my parents, or any family about this girl. My parents don't want her in there house and won't go to his now that she lives there. He had a bad child hood, so I'm not sure if this is why he is doing what he is doing. Sometimes I want to just cut him off but I would hate to stop talking to him because of a girl. Its getting really frustrating and I just can't seem to get through to him.