"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lookatu

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I also wonder if there are homeless people in North Korea or iran or if they kill them
N. Korea is Fvcked up. There's prisoners and regular law abiding citizens. Nothing in between.
People turn in other people for gossip and their whole extended family goes to labor camps for life. People die of hunger from these prisons.

If you're curious on first hand account, there's a really good book but also made into a documentary called: Escape from Camp 14.

What separates this out from others is that it is being told by a guy that was actually born in the prison camps. So he had a very different perspective before he escaped.

The US government is too busy going after countries they can benefit from. They don't really care about mass genocides in Africa, prison camps in N Korea, etc. Only oil rich nations they can tap into.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No man my T levels are about to blow out. I need to find a temporary oneity or something like that. Today in the office a horny young married girl i spoke to took her knee out the table signaling me her new dress and probably what's between her legs. I know she has a crush on me, and I have to be careful because knowing what I know now I'm not sure about anything
You need to EscortMax when going through a dry spell - and I include strippers doing a lap dances with a happy ending in this definition. The male is designed to be at unease when not getting regularly sexed by a suitably attractive female. If you can handle porking a fat chick from PlentyOfFish, then that would be a cheaper option.
 

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You need to EscortMax when going through a dry spell - and I include strippers doing a lap dances with a happy ending in this definition. The male is designed to be at unease when not getting regularly sexed by a suitably attractive female. If you can handle porking a fat chick from PlentyOfFish, then that would be a cheaper option.
The kind of advice you'll get only from a Mature DJ :cool:
 

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Good advice. Once
You need to EscortMax when going through a dry spell - and I include strippers doing a lap dances with a happy ending in this definition. The male is designed to be at unease when not getting regularly sexed by a suitably attractive female. If you can handle porking a fat chick from PlentyOfFish, then that would be a cheaper option.
Good advice. You get back to rolling when you take care of your needs this way. Strippers or escorts are very temporary solutions but have a place.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Man do you have more stuff like this
There's a lot of various articles and stories on the atrocities of the prisoner camps as there have been quite a few that has escaped from N Korea on the internet. The one I recommended though was a unique case as it was told and witnessed through the eyes of an actual person that was born in the prison camps and not one that was later imprisoned in life. I've read articles on various other accounts of imprisonment in N Korea but I can't think of any off the top of my head unfortunately.
 
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