"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lookatu

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I also wonder if there are homeless people in North Korea or iran or if they kill them
N. Korea is Fvcked up. There's prisoners and regular law abiding citizens. Nothing in between.
People turn in other people for gossip and their whole extended family goes to labor camps for life. People die of hunger from these prisons.

If you're curious on first hand account, there's a really good book but also made into a documentary called: Escape from Camp 14.

What separates this out from others is that it is being told by a guy that was actually born in the prison camps. So he had a very different perspective before he escaped.

The US government is too busy going after countries they can benefit from. They don't really care about mass genocides in Africa, prison camps in N Korea, etc. Only oil rich nations they can tap into.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MatureDJ

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No man my T levels are about to blow out. I need to find a temporary oneity or something like that. Today in the office a horny young married girl i spoke to took her knee out the table signaling me her new dress and probably what's between her legs. I know she has a crush on me, and I have to be careful because knowing what I know now I'm not sure about anything
You need to EscortMax when going through a dry spell - and I include strippers doing a lap dances with a happy ending in this definition. The male is designed to be at unease when not getting regularly sexed by a suitably attractive female. If you can handle porking a fat chick from PlentyOfFish, then that would be a cheaper option.
 

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You need to EscortMax when going through a dry spell - and I include strippers doing a lap dances with a happy ending in this definition. The male is designed to be at unease when not getting regularly sexed by a suitably attractive female. If you can handle porking a fat chick from PlentyOfFish, then that would be a cheaper option.
The kind of advice you'll get only from a Mature DJ :cool:
 

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Good advice. Once
You need to EscortMax when going through a dry spell - and I include strippers doing a lap dances with a happy ending in this definition. The male is designed to be at unease when not getting regularly sexed by a suitably attractive female. If you can handle porking a fat chick from PlentyOfFish, then that would be a cheaper option.
Good advice. You get back to rolling when you take care of your needs this way. Strippers or escorts are very temporary solutions but have a place.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lookatu

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Man do you have more stuff like this
There's a lot of various articles and stories on the atrocities of the prisoner camps as there have been quite a few that has escaped from N Korea on the internet. The one I recommended though was a unique case as it was told and witnessed through the eyes of an actual person that was born in the prison camps and not one that was later imprisoned in life. I've read articles on various other accounts of imprisonment in N Korea but I can't think of any off the top of my head unfortunately.
 
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