You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I literally wouldn't take her back to date but would bang. But I do feel good knowing It doesn't make me feel bad anymore because my b!tch ass was miserable for awhile because of what she did. With that being said it is a good feeling knowing she wants me now. Even if she does which I really have no idea
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Its a nice feeling to know you have grown out of your old tastes. I'd be careful of banging her though; it can be like playing with fire
I know 100% I will not try and date but I would like to bang how do I go about that?
You don't. The only scenario where you guys end up having sex is when she comes all the way to your door and asks you to f*ck her hard. I'm telling you man, if you engage even just a little bit, you will get f*cked in turn. She will not only reject you, but also tell everybody about this. People will start forgiving her and see you as the damn beta you'll be.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I read that and I agree. I doubt she's gonna come to me to bang. Like I said I saw her on tinder. Then she got off it. So she got on for 1 day? Lol chick is messed up in the head. She prolly hates me because I said I never loved her
How do you know she got off of it?
I made a new one and she wasn't on it anymore ive seen her on it multiple different times which means she deletes gets on deletes etc
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Research every thread Ryan has ever started on here. Its like a needy AF broken record. You cant help him.
I can't let a brother fall into the abyss
I mean i didn't bow down to her or anything In person I handled it great to my defense
He is the abyss.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bruh i get you like to talk **** I get it. But can you get out of my thread if your not gonna say something helpful or positive please and thanks
It's obvious what you did. You've merely survived with flesh wounds and internal bleeding if you ask me. If you keep thinking about women that way and afterwards unload your emotional blizzards here, you'll never learn and evolve into a better man.
I dk dude. As much as these guys are getting at you, I think there doing it just to give you the cold truth. This girl dumped you. The ball is completely in her court in regards to communication or initiating anything. You don’t do ****. Do not play her game at all. She has to be the one to come to you if that’s what you want. She’s doing all of this to illicit some sort of reaction from you. Don’t look to hard into it because girls do this **** ALL the time. My ex is doing it right now and I’m not changing my behavior or going out my way to interact with her at all. There’s literally nothing you can do in this situation. Just my two cents.
Perfect. Why is she trying to illicit some sort of behavior? I showed no emotion about liking her in person I told her I don't think i ever loved her and I'm glad she dumped me because it would of never of worked out. I mean we had good times so nostalgia hit me a bit. But other then that I am pretty proud of myself for how I acted
It’s for her own ego and mental state. Only she can answer that question. The more important question is why do you care when you tell us you don’t …
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
