"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
They pay criminal organizations to smuggle these women into China (either they outright kidnap them, or lure them using the pretext of finding work) and force them into marriage. The women get no help from authorities cause they cant speak Chinese and the authorities basically dont give a sh1t.....
20 mil men apparently.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"artificial"? What's this mean?
thermoplastic elastomer sex doll toys that become too stiff after about 6 years going for $2000. each with clothes and interchangeable heads.
Actually they started off at some crazy $8k+ depending on options customized by a shop in California originally. China started making these a few years ago and now there are models that can be had for ~$700 including shipping to the USA. There's actually youtube videos that review these. There are more advanced AI versions being developed now that will attempt to carry on a conversation and have their eyes/mouths move. And yes I don't own one and don't ask me how I know... LOL
lol, its ok, its so new...fleshli te type product sales have probably decreased now
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The Chinese are actually using that bullshyt?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
apparently because they reject epiphany phase and career women even with the higher male population.
Curious to know where in world the sales of these dolls is the highest.
Would it signify the thirstiest spot in the world?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
What are the traits of these "epiphany phase" women? And what are the traits of "career" women?
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I'm only buying when they get as good as the ones from "The Stepford Wives" (original movie).
Georgepithyou
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As portrayed in this thread's video that MatureDJ posted?
Interviewer was 32("career"woman/post wall) and interviewee was 26 "epiphany" age.
Not sure if age is a trait.
In denial
Regretful-they-haven't-married(which automatically translates to regretful they haven't been impregnated...but that's too redpill to blatantly declare in mixed company)
Another trait? Super cheerleaders for other women in same or near age bracket.
Not involved in much purpose or hobbies outside of work.
A peaked look about them. Not quite the 1000 ccck stare but a sort of furtive, desperate look behind forced smile.
Illogical way of speaking. Without sequential steps or cause-and-effect admittance to what their life has amounted to thus far.
There's probably dozens more but I'm reporting subjectively and from an unexpected frame.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I really want to see that movie. Can you spoil it and tell me all about it? I still watch movies after spoilers. lolI'm only buying when they get as good as the ones from "The Stepford Wives" (original movie).
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The wives were robots or programmed or something. Exceptionally perfect in every way. It was to make light of good wives.
that's what that tv show did too? the Mad Men?
Made light of it?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not sure if mad men did that. You being a female would see that more easily.
Maybe. Please consider its maybe not though.
I don't ask questions I have the answer to.
Sorry if it does seem like I'm autistic.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.