"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you to take the Rona Vaccine?

Are you going to take the rona vaccine?

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zekko

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And given the prevalence of asymptomatic carriers, you know for a fact that you do or do not have the virus exactly... how?
You're right, I don't know. But what are the odds of my being infected? What's an acceptable risk? If I maintain social distancing and practice good hand washing and sanitizing, what are the odds of me infecting people? And for the record, I don't refuse to wear a mask. If a store's policy is that they require a mask, I wear one. It's a matter of simple respect. If they don't require a mask, chances are I won't wear one. Because in those stores, the workers aren't usually wearing masks, nor are most of the customers. But they do have the plastic partitions up, and the six foot markers. As long as I'm not sneezing, coughing, or talking to people, I just don't think the masks make that much difference.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're right, I don't know. But what are the odds of my being infected? What's an acceptable risk? If I maintain social distancing and practice good hand washing and sanitizing, what are the odds of me infecting people? And for the record, I don't refuse to wear a mask. If a store's policy is that they require a mask, I wear one. It's a matter of simple respect. If they don't require a mask, chances are I won't wear one. Because in those stores, the workers aren't usually wearing masks, nor are most of the customers. But they do have the plastic partitions up, and the six foot markers. As long as I'm not sneezing, coughing, or talking to people, I just don't think the masks make that much difference.
Kudos to you for recognizing that a mask just isn't a big deal. It's amazing to me that it's such a point of contention.

The flaw in your reasoning is that you're thinking at interpersonal scale rather than epidemiological scale. It's not about individual risk, it's about how the math works out across the larger population. Most people seem to accept the notion of herd immunity, which is a similar concept with equally counterintuitive math behind it, if one were to think merely at the individual scale rather than at public health scale.

But somehow the rather simple notion that people wearing face coverings reduces the average radius of droplet transmission is controversial.

Didn't think I'd live to see such strange days.
 

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If you have the virus, you shouldn't be walking around the grocery store at all, whether you have a mask or not.

I'm not really sold on the idea that other countries are killing the US with their coronavirus responses either. Yes, we lead the world in cases, but we also test far, far more than any other country. And there are so many variables among different countries as to climate, economy, population, infrastructure, etc., that it seems difficult to compare one country to the next.
Not everyone who has the virus knows they have the virus. Asymptomatic spread is the very reason this bug spreads so far and so fast.

In terms of testing we rank 34th per capita. We are 11th in cases per capita.
 

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If I maintain social distancing and practice good hand washing and sanitizing, what are the odds of me infecting people?
The virus spreads largely by airborne and droplet transmission routes. Hand washing is important but not the biggest factor at play.

And for the record, I don't refuse to wear a mask. If a store's policy is that they require a mask, I wear one. It's a matter of simple respect. If they don't require a mask, chances are I won't wear one. Because in those stores, the workers aren't usually wearing masks, nor are most of the customers.
Well I certainly hope those stores start requiring people to wear masks then.
 

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The virus spreads largely by airborne and droplet transmission routes. Hand washing is important but not the biggest factor at play.
Most people wear cloth masks, bandanas, scarves, or the like, not professional level masks. Rick the Toad said even the N95s do not filter out the virus. As long as I'm not talking to, spitting on, sneezing on, or coughing on people, as well as following universal precautions, I doubt if I'm going to infect anyone not by not wearing a mask.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Most people wear cloth masks, bandanas, scarves, or the like, not professional level masks. Rick the Toad said even the N95s do not filter out the virus. As long as I'm not talking to, spitting on, sneezing on, or coughing on people, as well as following universal precautions, I doubt if I'm going to infect anyone not by not wearing a mask.
And as you've conceded in the past, masks are not about being a 100% barrier. And while I respect Rick, he's neither a virologist nor an epidemiologist (and, of course, neither am I). And he's probably not wrong: an N95 may not guard against infection if you were to step into a room swimming with aerosolized virus. But again, it's not the point.

For yet another flawed analogy: seat belts. You may be the safest driver in the world, and never get in an accident. You personally, anyway. That does not negate the fact that seat belt laws, from a public health perspective, have decreased road fatalities.
 

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Most people wear cloth masks, bandanas, scarves, or the like, not professional level masks. Rick the Toad said even the N95s do not filter out the virus. As long as I'm not talking to, spitting on, sneezing on, or coughing on people, as well as following universal precautions, I doubt if I'm going to infect anyone not by not wearing a mask.
The N95 exists to protect YOU while other masks exist to protect others. For example, when I worked at a hospital, the once-in-awhile Tuberculosis patient would wear a surgical mask when they were moved from room to room to prevent transmission to others. When we would enter the room we would wear N95 masks.

FWIW, and this is not scientific, I have care for almost 3 dozen COVID patients now and have worn one constantly sterilized N95 mask per week. I have been inches away from coughing patients regularly, a few with no masks. An N95 filters out 95% of all microbes 0.1 microns or more (COVID is slightly larger). I'm COVID-free per 3 tests. I firmly believe HOW you catch it is very important to it efficacy. 95% (or more) being filtered out means a lower viral load and a greater potential for lack of infection.
 

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And while I respect Rick, he's neither a virologist nor an epidemiologist
He's said he has a degree in Infectious Disease Epidemiology, along with his experience working with infectious diseases, so he has some expertise to draw upon.
 

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I wouldn't worry so much about the masks, since apparently people are wanting to destroy our cities now. And they're not social distancing either.
 

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He's said he has a degree in Infectious Disease Epidemiology, along with his experience working with infectious diseases, so he has some expertise to draw upon.
Missed that, my bad. A bit odd then that he's so laissez-faire about face-coverings, taking a small-group-dynamics viewpoint rather than an epidemiological one. But then, his primary job is a PA, not Public Health, and the questions he's fielded are mostly from a personal perspective than policy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Correct. The media needs to highlight the outside agitators they keep arresting.
Would be more interesting to see them asking on the street, who supplies the materials being used by the protesters.
Bricks, ready-made Molotov ****tails, etc.
Hordes of this stuff has been found. Who supplies this? By the reports (I only watch Fox, in case you're wondering)...there isn't a brick supply company anywhere near the protests (NYC). Who is buying them? Most of what you see on tv for protesters, appear to be bottom feeders.
 
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