"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Damn dudes..Russian gal I've messaged for 10 years

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We've stayed in contact for 10 years since she was 20. She reached out to me about the virus, hysterical etc. Now today, she just says, "My husband..." I'm like wtf? She said she was very poor, paycheck-to-paycheck and how Russians are very angry and the evil rich are stealing etc.

I mean, we've skyped, international called, sent pictures back n' forth. The first question she ever asked me was, "Are you married?" in 2010. She is almost always the one to re-initiate conversation after months of no contact. I told her that I was practicing my Russian (reading, speaking, writing, hearing). It was dual purpose and she wasn't all that good-looking. I kept the lines open all these years. I guess I'll continue our correspondence. I am her Amerikan contact.

She says there are police/checkpoints more and more in Russia while driving. She believes that Aliens are in control of our governments. I don't. I told her what I believe. She sent me these videos today.

She's sent me pictures of her injuries to her leg when the bus she was on crashed. Never any nudes and her voice is nothing like I expected it to be. It's worldly or like Disney world or a vacation type voice that I am not used to, and she would laugh at my trying to speak Russian. Her English was pretty much nil as well. I'd say when she was 20 years or her first pics she sent to me, she was certainly attractive like Gladiator's love interest in Rome, kinda regal, but over the years she got a more d!ck-sucking looking mouth. Before, her lips were more "normal" or tender/soft.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We've stayed in contact for 10 years since she was 20. She reached out to me about the virus, hysterical etc. Now today, she just says, "My husband..." I'm like wtf? She said she was very poor, paycheck-to-paycheck and how Russians are very angry and the evil rich are stealing etc.

I mean, we've skyped, international called, sent pictures back n' forth. The first question she ever asked me was, "Are you married?" in 2010. She is almost always the one to re-initiate conversation after months of no contact. I told her that I was practicing my Russian (reading, speaking, writing, hearing). It was dual purpose and she wasn't all that good-looking. I kept the lines open all these years. I guess I'll continue our correspondence. I am her Amerikan contact.

She says there are police/checkpoints more and more in Russia while driving. She believes that Aliens are in control of our governments. I don't. I told her what I believe. She sent me these videos today.

She's sent me pictures of her injuries to her leg when the bus she was on crashed. Never any nudes and her voice is nothing like I expected it to be. It's worldly or like Disney world or a vacation type voice that I am not used to, and she would laugh at my trying to speak Russian. Her English was pretty much nil as well. I'd say when she was 20 years or her first pics she sent to me, she was certainly attractive like Gladiator's love interest in Rome, kinda regal, but over the years she got a more d!ck-sucking looking mouth. Before, her lips were more "normal" or tender/soft.
You make me want to send a message to a German girl I was mailing 13yrs ago and then she would tell me that I am the love of her life forever and ever until the death will separate between us
 

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So u were her penpal for ten years, you gave her free non sexual attention all this time?
 

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So u were her penpal for ten years, you gave her free non sexual attention all this time?
I once, when she was 21 in 2011, showed my phone to some associates from work (really crazy ugly dudes but it would help the time pass while working cuttin up with them) with the Russian girl there in her pink outfit at home speaking with them. I introduced her to them, they waved and said, "Hey..." the grizzly creatures they are/were. It was amazing the technology (Skype) to bring a real Russian into the convo or experience just like that. They'd probably hardly ever seen or spoke with one, limited English, except for maybe at a discount grocery store. It's cool when you can understand some or most of what Russians are saying in the aisle at a store or something. It actually breaks up the monotony of shopping for groceries or whatever. Also, you Learn how the rest of the world actually thinks and behaves, not like us Americans who don't really have any "proper" ways of speech or behavior. There's is more stilted, more civilized I'd say. Of course, the rest of the world would eat your heart out and steal from you or stab you in the back while you're not looking. It's good to broaden your horizons even if it's difficult or uncomfortable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you like her get on a plane and go see her. Check out the scenery what the hell. Ive known a few Russian immigrants and their wives were good women. Obedient af
That's because in Russia you can beat your wives to a certain point and not go to jail or get arrested. ;)
 

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If you like her get on a plane and go see her. Check out the scenery what the hell. Ive known a few Russian immigrants and their wives were good women. Obedient af
Not sure if ya'll understood, sorry. She said, "My husband..." and I something something are going to their "Dacha" that there were "policemen around." So when she got married over the last 10 years is a mystery to me. Oh well.
 

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I think you're wasting your time talking to someone who is either crazy and/or an attention *****. But she is probably right about the aliens.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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