For those who deny the importance of Looks

[Lynx nkaf]

This is just something you'll get used to working along side with. You'll eventually find it fun giving you more energy to get you through the day. Of course keep things light and professional. The main probs you might encounter though are from aggressive bosses that had received no reciprocated affection back. You'll have to figure that one out. Or maybe the metoo movement has changed things so that they're more cautious? I know males were affected but females still seemed to be in full force. My last female bosses gave me a hardtime because they thought I didn't "care about them". Lmao.

Funny story. One of the creepiest exp's I had to get over was that after catching someone staring at me while I was eating, I'd go back to eating but could just feel their eyes continue to watch me...eat. It felt soo weirrrd like you're getting studied.

yes, that is socially unusual. A smartasz thing to say can be "take a picture, it'll last longer"
Some people do actually not realise they're staring rudely and that might have woken them up out of their reverie.

Dad told me to try boldly opening a full newspaper in their face for your privacy. Eventually they snap out of it and study someone else.
I wonder what its like to be a man with a female boss. Assume everything you say will go on the Jumbotron and you should be good. The females over 55 are definitely better bosses to have probably then you're not dealing with the fuokshow maelstrom that is their menstrual multihormonal cycles.

I have ultraconservative and extraordinarily well bred married family men where I work. Very fine examples of gentlemen. I know how fortunate I am and I'd like to stay here now until I no longer need to work. So no issues there. They are all like family and I've only been there13 months.

I feel safe to take better care of my body and appearance. Just trying to fine-tune, fine-plan an image in case I have to bounce back to construction.

 

[skinnyguy]

It amazes me the guys who say looks aren't important are the same ones who hit the gym every day to LOOK better (lol). Are you gonna give the same excuse that females give? That you "do it for yourself"

If money and status mattered then why isn't every Lawyer/Manager/Stock Broker swimming in pvssy? They're not. But Billy the Badboy gardener who cuts grass for minimum wage is

I agree about the looks part. However about money - if it doesn't matter then why is a 70 year old casino mogul married to a 27 year old model? Why was Melania attracted to Trump? Look at who Harvey Weinstein was married to.

I know that not every lawyer or banker is swimming in pvssy. A lot of them just don't have time because they are working 90 hours a week. But like I said earlier, I don't think spinning plates is their priority. Several guys I know who are way up in the corporate world married when they were 25 years old and never spun plates or went out to clubs. In the corporate world, spinning plates is really looked down upon. You're not socially acceptable unless you're married and with a family especially if you're in the managerial level.

LMS are all important. If a guy doesn't have much L, he can make up for it with M. Similarly, if a guy doesn't have much M or S, he can make up for it with L. Different women care about different things. I'm not saying that there aren't any women who care about raw attraction - they are definitely out there. But there are tons of women out there who will forego raw attraction to meet a guy who's a "prize" (high status).

 

[Who Dares Win]

Broad shoulders>tight shoulders

Hairline>no hairline

Tall>short

Ripped>chubby

Visibile jawline>weak jawline

Symmetrical face>asymmetrical face

Wheter you are the sad artist living on a loft or the greedy businessmen running wallstreet those above and many more applies.
Beauty IS NOT in the eye of the beholder, only the tolerance for flaws.

 

[malz1]

yes, that is socially unusual. A smartasz thing to say can be "take a picture, it'll last longer"
Some people do actually not realise they're staring rudely and that might have woken them up out of their reverie.

Dad told me to try boldly opening a full newspaper in their face for your privacy. Eventually they snap out of it and study someone else.
I wonder what its like to be a man with a female boss. Assume everything you say will go on the Jumbotron and you should be good. The females over 55 are definitely better bosses to have probably then you're not dealing with the fuokshow maelstrom that is their menstrual multihormonal cycles.

I have ultraconservative and extraordinarily well bred married family men where I work. Very fine examples of gentlemen. I know how fortunate I am and I'd like to stay here now until I no longer need to work. So no issues there. They are all like family and I've only been there13 months.

I feel safe to take better care of my body and appearance. Just trying to fine-tune, fine-plan an image in case I have to bounce back to construction.

Yea, I used to think women complaining about receiving stares was all exaggerated hype until it happened to me lol. Female bosses are a major pain. Typically the first couple days I start working under them, they'll include me into their personal buddy group and bring up forward sexual topics. Or invite me and some other co-workers to some outside event. I simply cannot just keep it professional and neutral else they'll think I'm an Ahole and use their powers against me. And the guys that followed them like Queens would support them. It's funny because even though the females would go against me they still would try to support me in some ways. I haven't had any real issues with co-workers that weren't working above me. There's usually just fun flirting. Let's just say my last female boss cried twice at work because of my lack of affection (omg).

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Yea, I used to think women complaining about receiving stares was all exaggerated hype until it happened to me lol. Female bosses are a major pain. Typically the first couple days I start working under them, they'll include me into their personal buddy group and bring up forward sexual topics. Or invite me and some other co-workers to some outside event. I simply cannot just keep it professional and neutral else they'll think I'm an Ahole and use their powers against me. And the guys that followed them like Queens would support them. It's funny because even though the females would go against me they still would try to be support me in some ways. I haven't had any real issues with co-workers not working above me. There's usually just fun flirting.

hmmm.

sounds like you have to come up with repelling shtick or find a 55+ yr old female social proof spokesperson/mentor/wing who can beat them back off you when they cross boundaries.

Repelling shtick ideas:
*let it slip you have terrible outbreaks of an uncurable sti
*allude to an interest in men
*get a LDR going where you are demonstrating loyalty and romance to the love of your life "I have a webx date planned with my love, sorry I can't make it after work" you'll get an "awww, that's sweeeeeet" in reply
*state the obvious graciously and with tact more- "oh that sounds like you just gave me a compliment on my appearance, thanks for making my day!"
*shame them by stating the obvious with horror that they'd even imagine you would ever date or whatever your 'work family' - "I don't get my meat where I get my potatoes, ya dig!?"

 

[Visionist]

Women who have not gone through the trials of the sexual marketplace are disgusted by kissing any man that it not the tip-top Chad tier. And it starts at an early stage of life:

Jesus, poor Gino. The look on his face at the end, and all those washed up hens laughing at him.

Cünts.

 

[Medina]

Broad shoulders>tight shoulders

Hairline>no hairline

Tall>short

Ripped>chubby

Visibile jawline>weak jawline

Symmetrical face>asymmetrical face

Wheter you are the sad artist living on a loft or the greedy businessmen running wallstreet those above applies.

It's all to do with male-on-male violence

• If you've got a weak jaw... you'll get knocked out cold
• Taller guys are more likely to win fights
• Hunter eyes are attractive because big bug eyes are vulnerable to damage
• Same with sockets, skull size, nasal bridges, cheeks
• Asymmetry is a sign of poor development and thus prone to injury

Human males don't battle for pvssy anymore but the concepts are still there. Female brains are still attuned to it. They don't know WHY chiselled jawlines are attractive (they have no idea) but they choose them anyway

It just follows the same pattern as every other mammal on the planet...the most violently capable male is the one who is chosen to breed

Nuclear blackpill. And my last one for this thread. Enjoy your Disneyland fellas

 

[malz1]

hmmm.

sounds like you have to come up with repelling shtick or find a 55+ yr old female social proof spokesperson/mentor/wing who can beat them back off you when they cross boundaries.

Repelling shtick ideas:
*let it slip you have terrible outbreaks of an uncurable sti
*allude to an interest in men
*get a LDR going where you are demonstrating loyalty and romance to the love of your life "I have a webx date planned with my love, sorry I can't make it after work" you'll get an "awww, that's sweeeeeet" in reply
*state the obvious graciously and with tact more- "oh that sounds like you just gave me a compliment on my appearance, thanks for making my day!"
*shame them by stating the obvious with horror that they'd even imagine you would ever date or whatever your 'work family' - "I don't get my meat where I get my potatoes, ya dig!?"

Are you trying to make it worse for me? Lol. As for the ldr plan I've tried that before. What happens is that they'll pretend to empathize w/ me all the while still making moves on me. It's so bizarre and underhanded but funny too. I haven't worked for a few years now that I'm back in school but I can only imagine the drama that awaits me when I go back to work. Ugh. (I'm actually crying inside rn)

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Are you trying to make it worse for me? Lol. As for the ldr plan I've tried that before. What happens is that they'll pretend to empathize w/ me all the while still making moves on me. It's so bizarre and underhanded but funny too. I haven't worked for a few years now that I'm back in school but I can only imagine the drama that awaits me when I go back to work. Ugh. (I'm actually crying inside rn)

lol, lol

nah bro, you're going to do great when you get back to the rat race. Things change every 6 months or so in the workforce.
Personally, I'm freaking loving the 6'physical distancing rule. I'm noticeably more relaxed everywhere(more introvert than extrovert)
You'll do ok, maybe try to get some part time work for practice so its not such a shock when you have to do a fulltime job?

 

[malz1]

Imagine getting a part time job just to deal w/ your future insane bosses. Does my situation really sound tht bad lmao? I would intentionally try to look disgusting but then they'll just treat me like shxt. Like so much shxt it's awful lol. I love being an introvert at times but not when I'm forced to be. I can't ever win this and I'm just cursed .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Imagine getting a part time job just to deal w/ your future insane bosses. Does my situation really sound tht bad lmao? I would intentionally try to look disgusting but then they'll just treat me like shxt. Like so much shxt it's awful lol. I love being an introvert at times but not when I'm forced to be. I can't ever win this and I'm just cursed .

I guess you have to be their best friends.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

lol, lol

nah bro, you're going to do great when you get back to the rat race. Things change every 6 months or so in the workforce.
Personally, I'm freaking loving the 6'physical distancing rule. I'm noticeably more relaxed everywhere(more introvert than extrovert)
You'll do ok, maybe try to get some part time work for practice so its not such a shock when you have to do a fulltime job?

On the "rat race", why would you let them MAKE you compete over something that is NOT important to you at all? You don't feel that is grabbing your attention and wasting your time? We all have our own strengths, destinations and goals even within an organization, and "rat racing", I haven't seen any way it benefits me at all. It usually is an attention stealer, to keep me out of my zone.

 

[malz1]

I guess you have to be their best friends.

To be fair, I usually try to become friends with everyone and had even flirted w/ some past bosses. But the weird/annoying ones that I'd try to distance myself from, they would be the 1st ones after me. And if they were long time friends with the other female bosses(usually the case) then "all aboard the drama plane".

 

[mrgoodstuff]

To be fair, I usually try to become friends with everyone and had even flirted w/ some past bosses. But the weird/annoying ones that I'd try to distance myself from, they would be the 1st ones after me. And if they were long time friends with the other female bosses(usually the case) then "all aboard the drama plane".

You can make an initial case to HR, in case you have to go back to it. Now if somehow reporting to HR "gets you into trouble", you can file a "Retaliation" suit with the EEOC. That case will get you up to $500K, and attourneys will defend you for free against a major corp. "Retailiation" means you cannot get into trouble for defending yourself using HR.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

On the "rat race", why would you let them MAKE you compete over something that is NOT important to you at all? You don't feel that is grabbing your attention and wasting your time? We all have our own strengths, destinations and goals even within an organization, and "rat racing", I haven't seen any way it benefits me at all. It usually is an attention stealer, to keep me out of my zone.

I agree.
Its like shyttests.
Let's face it, working sucks.
That thread over there that asks what you're looking forward to when more things open back up?

I'd answer there but I'll do it here.
I'm looking forward to getting services.
I have a dermaplaning appointment that was postponed, I actually will go get my brows shaped, I know where to get a superb hair colouring job, I know where to get help with makeup, I know where to start some social circles....with my plan to retire early already in motion, I intend to use the valuable advice here and get myself a high value man to fill my time instead of making strangers money with my labour.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You can make an initial case to HR, in case you have to go back to it. Now if somehow reporting to HR "gets you into trouble", you can file a "Retaliation" suit with the EEOC. That case will get you up to $500K, and attourneys will defend you for free against a major corp. "Retailiation" means you cannot get into trouble for defending yourself using HR.

And if you have a woman, you can always let her find some of the correspondence and deal with it.

I agree.
Its like shyttests.
Let's face it, working sucks.
That thread over there that asks what you're looking forward to when more things open back up?

I'd answer there but I'll do it here.
I'm looking forward to getting services.
I have a dermaplaning appointment that was postponed, I actually will go get my brows shaped, I know where to get a superb hair colouring job, I know where to get help with makeup, I know where to start some social circles....with my plan to retire early already in motion, I intend to use the valuable advice here and get myself a high value man to fill my time instead of making strangers money with my labour.

A high value man to "game" you? Or a high value man that wants to love someone and could give a shyt about what society tells him to do?

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Oh definitely a man to 'game' me. That is just so much fun. lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Oh definitely a man to 'game' me. That is just so much fun. lol

This time he's going to run you down, you going to wish you where dead. Into the ground, over and over and over and over, until you get to a point that you will kill that fool if he doesn't stay the fvck away from you. And anyone else who damages you going forward will have costs to pay for it. And you will be damned if you let a man treat you less than gold.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

This time he's going to run you down, you going to wish you where dead. Into the ground, over and over and over and over, until you get to a point that you will kill that fool if he doesn't stay the fvck away from you. And anyone else who damages you going forward will have costs to pay for it. And you will be damned if you let a man treat you less than gold.

Yes, you read my earlier posts in the year right? My disgust, my anger, my hopelessness. I just admitted to Be in pm the other day that I'm now in the obsessing to find info on how he is or who he ended up with mode of recovery phase.
I can't afford the costs of choosing wrong next time.
I need longer recovery after this one. I want to be absolutely grounded in my appearance, selfesteem, everything.

It may be a long time.

 

[GeeMale]

Look at the way this female reporter swoons over this dude. While I don't think most women will find this dude's physique appealing, this reporter was definitely thirsting for him.

The other one is his wife....believe it or not most women who I asked in person aren't attracted to the super swoll bodybuilder om stage....not sure why