"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What movie when netflix and chill?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The right flick will prime her for you.
Love story, impossible love story subplot twists, etc., but definitely nothing with a man taking advantage of female nature like in Hitch…
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Not a stupid slasher movie, but a good psychological horror/thriller like Get Out, Doctor Sleep, or I See You. It will raise their heart rate, emotions, they'll snuggle close, and you'll be the "big protector," haha.
Trust me on this one. It works.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So something to get them thinking crazy....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
teacha
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wifehunter
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Seriously, it shouldnt matter. I agree with @Dash Riprock that a scary movie seems to be best for dropping panties. Try The Conjouring or any paranormal movie.
If you are still watching it 20 minutes in, its not Netflix and Chill its just your date is bored with you and youre not getting any.
taiyuu_otoko
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I've made the mistake of taking a girl out to a movie that i really wanted to focus on and enjoy, it was Blade Runner 2047. She kept complaining and i just told her to leave.
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You dodged a nuke there.
I'm one of those super snobby, very arrogant guys who knows my taste in films and music is better than everybody else's. My opinion of anybody will plummet when I find out they're into anything I consider below me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.