"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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women cant survive without attention during quarantine and do stupid chit to get it

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some crazy woman from my country screaming "jesus resurrected! come out all"
http://instagr.am/p/B-3jA62nmEp/ though you could feel lack of power in her voice i guess she felt its stupid and she was shy to do it but she did it anyway


women do anything they can to get some attention online
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A woman's sense of self-worth is based entirely off of the attention and validation she receives aka S3xual Market Value.....

.....in the absence of validation women lash out....

While it's true that females are still getting validation through likes and DM's on IG, they still crave real-world attention from guys checking them out....

Back during my 20s when I frequented bars and nightclubs, there would be the phenomena of women groups going out just to drink hustle desperate SIMPs..... It was a form of validation if they could get X number of guys to buy them drinks.....

....obviously lockdown will cut off this stream of validation and thus women are lashing out....
 

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A woman's sense of self-worth is based entirely off of the attention and validation she receives aka S3xual Market Value.....

.....in the absence of validation women lash out....

While it's true that females are still getting validation through likes and DM's on IG, they still crave real-world attention from guys checking them out....

Back during my 20s when I frequented bars and nightclubs, there would be the phenomena of women groups going out just to drink hustle desperate SIMPs..... It was a form of validation if they could get X number of guys to buy them drinks.....

....obviously lockdown will cut off this stream of validation and thus women are lashing out....
ngl meme gender
 

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I've learned that from picture to picture, women can really Mask what they really look like. More often than not, the turd is polished. Unhealthy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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some crazy woman from my country screaming "jesus resurrected! come out all"
http://instagr.am/p/B-3jA62nmEp/ though you could feel lack of power in her voice i guess she felt its stupid and she was shy to do it but she did it anyway


women do anything they can to get some attention online
get that big a$$ forehead, ET looking b8sh out of here haha
 

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This is 100% correct
Had a friend who was a pretty good looking guy that was a respiratory therapist in a hospital and he said he basically pretty much fvcked every good looking nurse there over the course of a year or so...said it was like a competition between the nurses who could get banged by a "hot" coworker first.
 

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Had a friend who was a pretty good looking guy that was a respiratory therapist in a hospital and he said he basically pretty much fvcked every good looking nurse there over the course of a year or so...said it was like a competition between the nurses who could get banged by a "hot" coworker first.
Nurses are freaks just like Teachers, In my area i matched the most with nurses on online dating since this Lockdown began let that sink it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nurses are freaks just like Teachers, In my area i matched the most with nurses on online dating since this Lockdown began let that sink it
Guess they figure they already are in the worst possible scenario for catching it so why not?
 

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Guess they figure they already are in the worst possible scenario for catching it so why not?
Yup my number 1 matches are Nurses or women who work in the medical field--you can tell they are bored, lonely and horny working 12-16 hour days...They'll sent nudes but won't meet up probably for the best lol
 

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Had a friend who was a pretty good looking guy that was a respiratory therapist in a hospital and he said he basically pretty much fvcked every good looking nurse there over the course of a year or so...said it was like a competition between the nurses who could get banged by a "hot" coworker first.
I've known a number of nurses and that's exactly what they say. They line up to bang any good looking guy that comes along. Not sure if its the job itself, or just because its mainly women working together, or what. Lots of sex going on in restrooms, supply closets, parking decks, etc at your local hospital.
 

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Nurses are freaks just like Teachers, In my area i matched the most with nurses on online dating since this Lockdown began let that sink it
Also there are a ton of nurses who are swingers. The medical field in general seems to be way overrepresented for whatever reason.
 

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I've known a number of nurses and that's exactly what they say. They line up to bang any good looking guy that comes along. Not sure if its the job itself, or just because its mainly women working together, or what. Lots of sex going on in restrooms, supply closets, parking decks, etc at your local hospital.
WOW.....I think and this is my hypothesis but high stressful jobs stimulate the libido in women and in turn brings out the thot

I use to have a buddy who was a substitute teacher and he would tell me the wild stories about teachers who would hook up or stuff that would happen at holiday parties

I remember one time I hooked up with teacher who drove 3 hours to see me to swallow my load, the whole time she was just talking about how crappy her job is because the school has no money, typically with these women all they talk about is their jobs and how stressful it is
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's very rare that I'll ask for a nude on tinder. I figure 3000 other guys are asking them for nudes, so i dont ask.
 

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WOW.....I think and this is my hypothesis but high stressful jobs stimulate the libido in women and in turn brings out the thot

I use to have a buddy who was a substitute teacher and he would tell me the wild stories about teachers who would hook up or stuff that would happen at holiday parties

I remember one time I hooked up with teacher who drove 3 hours to see me to swallow my load, the whole time she was just talking about how crappy her job is because the school has no money, typically with these women all they talk about is their jobs and how stressful it is
Matched with a teacher on OLD. She started sexting me the day after we began talking. She invited me over to hook up.
 

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It's very rare that I'll ask for a nude on tinder. I figure 3000 other guys are asking them for nudes, so i dont ask.
I thought the point of Tinder was to meet up. Seems like a waste to just ask for nudes.

How often do people send dic pics to people on Tinder?
 

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My ex I was with until the end of January, age 47, is loosing her mind. My daughter's BF, age 19, is still friends with her in FB and he said he was laughing at her posts to himself. I guess she goes on binges posting like every few minutes for hours at a time and was also talking about going crazy because she can't go out. He said her parents even responded to her posts trying to calm her down saying "Relax honey, it will be OK. A lot of other extraverts like you are struggling right now. This will be over soon. " After nearly a month of NC she sent me an Email the other day. Started out civil talking about her recent car wreck but then she started getting nasty so I quit responding. My thoughts: She needs to quit bragging that she is a strong and independent woman because she is clearly neither if she can't handle this!! It's hillarious!!!
 

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I thought the point of Tinder was to meet up. Seems like a waste to just ask for nudes.

How often do people send dic pics to people on Tinder?
Some women will, but like you say, im in the game to find a decent woman if possible. Not into sending nudes...havent got time to play that game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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