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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Why Women Have Sex
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I stopped reading when I saw that the article and the book mentioned in the article are both written by women.
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The co-author's name is David.
David is probably not a woman. Just by reading the article, and how dismayed the journalist is, the book seems to unravel a lot of truths.
David is a cuck or gay.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrgoodstuff
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I didn't see a list of 237...
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Basically the article says there are reasons such as revenge against an ex, make a man jealous, status with social circle of friends, getting a man, keeping a man, getting promotions, drugs, etc. as well as pleasure due to physical attraction. Supposedly there was a study. It is obvious that women have sex for MANY reasons, far more so than men. We are almost singular in our sexual pursuit as far as reasons.
I didn't find the article life changing but it was a good reminder that women have sex for many reasons.
I didn't find the article life changing but it was a good reminder that women have sex for many reasons.
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one is butch, and militant looking......took one look at her picture and stopped reading.....
mrgoodstuff
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So most reasons are not "pleasure" according to this Butch viewpoint.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
glass half full
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Depending on her attitude, workplace environment and social circle, this could last nearly two decades past her twenties.
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It's almost as if their base nature is sluts in competition to see who can get the most best ****...
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Listen to Mr. Locario.
mrgoodstuff
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Thus you must make them compete.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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That's actually pretty based for an article from the guardian. There's still the propaganda crap like '...Which means that 12% of Russian women and 22% of Japanese women are totally wasting their time."
But at least they're being real.
But at least they're being real.
mrgoodstuff
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You know this type?
I hate to set off the alphas in the joint...gawd knows they re easily triggered. Most of the 'reasons' come down to some random feeling. But a bit of male leadership changes all that.
Like I always say foot traffic. If you're short broke bald and fat go up to enough chicks this weekend you ll still get it wet their random nature i.e. 'reasons' always provides. I f u want her to stick around then you have to do the work.....but be careful what you wish for
Like I always say foot traffic. If you're short broke bald and fat go up to enough chicks this weekend you ll still get it wet their random nature i.e. 'reasons' always provides. I f u want her to stick around then you have to do the work.....but be careful what you wish for
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lol at this article.
I kinda agree. Women accept (and for that matter reject) sex for the dumbest reasons.
Like I've said before:
I've gotten laid before being friends with some dudes in a band.
And, I've been rejected for doing literally everything right and then just being told when she was back at my place that I try to hard. (in general, she's not wrong lol)
I've gotten laid cuz apperantly I look like her boyfriend who she was trying to make mad.
I've gotten rejected for not having the same religion.
It's pointless, it's irrational and you know what? That's what makes it fun.
Cheers
I kinda agree. Women accept (and for that matter reject) sex for the dumbest reasons.
Like I've said before:
I've gotten laid before being friends with some dudes in a band.
And, I've been rejected for doing literally everything right and then just being told when she was back at my place that I try to hard. (in general, she's not wrong lol)
I've gotten laid cuz apperantly I look like her boyfriend who she was trying to make mad.
I've gotten rejected for not having the same religion.
It's pointless, it's irrational and you know what? That's what makes it fun.
Cheers
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Women have sex for validation. Hence why they **** up.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.