"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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People change man. To be honest I've met alot of geeks and the one thing that is key is Maturity. The one thing they teach as a software developer is to differentiate the virtual reality vs. the real world. To be human.
Social can be a bunch of bullshyt and it's part of the real world. It can also flow smoothly and work in your favor.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is a geek? What types of jobs do they have?

What is a non geek? What types of jobs do they have?

Is the wolf of wallstreet a geek? He has a white collar job? He's not in the "streets". He makes a lot of money. And fvcks bishes.
Geeks are typically intellectual types who care more about knowledge/understanding of a certain area than social skills, social status, athleticism, money, and power*.

I think "nerd" is an older term. It's much like a geek, but more eccentric (due to being smart) and associated more with poor social skills and fashion sense. A geek is more of a "high functioning" nerd or "normie nerd" of sorts. Geeks can have decent social skills and fashion sense. Think of a "geek" as "nerdlite."

Geeks are mostly common in the STEM fields.

Non-geeks are often in fields that focus more on communications skills and interpersonal skills.

*I understand that some geeks can be extremely successful and achieve power/money/status. But at their core, geeks are more motivated by subject itself that they are passionate about.
 

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Is the wolf of wallstreet a geek? He has a white collar job? He's not in the "streets". He makes a lot of money. And fvcks bishes.
I missed one lol.

I would say the wolf of wallstreet is not a geek. While it definitely is a "brainy" job, very high status and high earning jobs can have less of a "geek" reputation because they are associated more with money and power.

Another example is doctors. While most doctors are probably geeks because of their love for technical knowledge of medicine, their high status and earning potential means that women are less likely to put them in the geek category.

If an engineer becomes CEO, while he might still be a geek at heart, he would not be looked as geeky anymore because of the big money/status upgrade.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well there's an abnormal abundance of natural geeks/nerds here and also those who are expressives.

90% at the very least.

That's why we see sentences/words with "where's the data?", "I'm so heart broken", "BPD", "invasionnnnn", etc.
 

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Geeks are typically intellectual types who care more about knowledge/understanding of a certain area than social skills, social status, athleticism, money, and power*.

I think "nerd" is an older term. It's much like a geek, but more eccentric (due to being smart) and associated more with poor social skills and fashion sense. A geek is more of a "high functioning" nerd or "normie nerd" of sorts. Geeks can have decent social skills and fashion sense. Think of a "geek" as "nerdlite."

Geeks are mostly common in the STEM fields.

Non-geeks are often in fields that focus more on communications skills and interpersonal skills.

*I understand that some geeks can be extremely successful and achieve power/money/status. But at their core, geeks are more motivated by subject itself that they are passionate about.
So Curry is a "geek" on the basketball port. It's not a thug game in him, but a consummate student of the game. Fundamentals over and over and over again until he can make his shots in his sleep.
 

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Well there's an abnormal abundance of natural geeks/nerds here and also those who are expressives.

90% at the very least.

That's why we see sentences/words with "where's the data?", "I'm so heart broken", "BPD", "invasionnnnn", etc.
I agree. Player Supreme used to clown the geeks... So they give themselves away to me when they want to defend fapping when they could be fvcking instead!
 

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Geeks are typically intellectual types who care more about knowledge/understanding of a certain area than social skills, social status, athleticism, money, and power*.

I think "nerd" is an older term. It's much like a geek, but more eccentric (due to being smart) and associated more with poor social skills and fashion sense. A geek is more of a "high functioning" nerd or "normie nerd" of sorts. Geeks can have decent social skills and fashion sense. Think of a "geek" as "nerdlite."

Geeks are mostly common in the STEM fields.

Non-geeks are often in fields that focus more on communications skills and interpersonal skills.

*I understand that some geeks can be extremely successful and achieve power/money/status. But at their core, geeks are more motivated by subject itself that they are passionate about.
I don't know nothing. I thought a "geek" was less socially astute than a "nerd". Kinda like a "nerd" with zero hope. Built bad, shy, just way off.
 

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I missed one lol.

I would say the wolf of wallstreet is not a geek. While it definitely is a "brainy" job, very high status and high earning jobs can have less of a "geek" reputation because they are associated more with money and power.

Another example is doctors. While most doctors are probably geeks because of their love for technical knowledge of medicine, their high status and earning potential means that women are less likely to put them in the geek category.

If an engineer becomes CEO, while he might still be a geek at heart, he would not be looked as geeky anymore because of the big money/status upgrade.
Everything’s relative.

To the OP, no, they don’t like the nerdy dudes. They just like what they can do for them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know technies make money but I just never had known girls going for this.

You really think Bill Gates gets girl's pvssies wet?
Some techies are actually cool, social people. Not everyone is a prototypical backend developer who sits in front of their screen all day and talks to noone.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some techies are actually cool, social people. Not everyone is a prototypical backend developer who sits in front of their screen all day and talks to noone.
I understand this and some also resemble the geek look which I didn't think hot younger women go for. Yes when women are close to expiration that can change but these girls are like 22. I do admit though that the one girl mentioned how the one guy is a CPA alluding to him making money. Maybe the focus to go for guys with good jobs is hitting younger now a days?

Mike btw good analysis on the difference between a geek and a nerd. Yes a geek is probably less of an insult to sum it up right? The Wolf of Wall street was absolutely neither a nerd or geek in my opinion btw.
 

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For you guys who are saying the average hot girl is now magically attracted to the average geeky or nerdy guy, are deluding yourselves.

Yes, nothing is ever 0%/100%, BUT it goes against every once of DNA and genetic programming to say women are "attracted" to geeky guys at the DNA level.

To review, MOST (98%+) of ALL women are largely attracted to:

-Assertiveness, dominance
-Leadership qualities
-Goals and objectives
-Excitement, fun, thrills
-Communication skills, mainly verbal
-Challenge (she must "work" or "compete" to a certain degree to get him)
-Physical stature
-Looks
-Success and $

There are reasons women WILL date a nerdy or geeky guy:

-She recently got dumped by the above man and wants a "safe" bet for awhile
-The nerd man is easy to control and manipulate, a break from chasing/dating hotter men she must "work" for
-She's ready to settle down and knows the man above may likely cheat or that she will be in constant competition for him which is not conducive to raising children and having a family--this is probably the #1 reason
-The nerd or geek is a solid "provider" and she has relegated herself to safety over thrills
-She is a low-quality woman and has planned (consciously or unconsciously) to "settle" with the geek BUT will keep a stable of Chads to screw on the side, effectively playing both sides of the fence

Ciao,

~Dash~
 

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For you guys who are saying the average hot girl is now magically attracted to the average geeky or nerdy guy, are deluding yourselves.

Yes, nothing is ever 0%/100%, BUT it goes against every once of DNA and genetic programming to say women are "attracted" to geeky guys at the DNA level.

To review, MOST (98%+) of ALL women are largely attracted to:

-Assertiveness, dominance
-Leadership qualities
-Goals and objectives
-Excitement, fun, thrills
-Communication skills, mainly verbal
-Challenge (she must "work" or "compete" to a certain degree to get him)
-Physical stature
-Looks
-Success and $

There are reasons women WILL date a nerdy or geeky guy:

-She recently got dumped by the above man and wants a "safe" bet for awhile
-The nerd man is easy to control and manipulate, a break from chasing/dating hotter men she must "work" for
-She's ready to settle down and knows the man above may likely cheat or that she will be in constant competition for him which is not conducive to raising children and having a family--this is probably the #1 reason
-The nerd or geek is a solid "provider" and she has relegated herself to safety over thrills
-She is a low-quality woman and has planned (consciously or unconsciously) to "settle" with the geek BUT will keep a stable of Chads to screw on the side, effectively playing both sides of the fence

Ciao,

~Dash~
Second place is first loser.

Everything hinges on what a woman's need is at the time she's spoken to. A geek can have her if she's looking for beta roles i.e. tech support, ego boosts, emotional tampons, and orbiters. After this, she'll go back to Chad, Tyrone, Chang, and Enrique. You know, the guys she ACTUALLY wants and gets wet for.
 

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Second place is first loser.

Everything hinges on what a woman's need is at the time she's spoken to. A geek can have her if she's looking for beta roles i.e. tech support, ego boosts, emotional tampons, and orbiters. After this, she'll go back to Chad, Tyrone, Chang, and Enrique. You know, the guys she ACTUALLY wants and gets wet for.
Geeks might actually do good because they are focused more on their tech and work than her and make her work hard for their attention.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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