"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hamurabimbi

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Yea more than one cup fvcks with erections. And on the alcohol it decreases testosterone, increases estrogen and decreases blood circulation producing a weaker boner. Let her do the drinking, you sip and take your time on one drink if that.
Didn’t know that. I drink ALOT of coffee.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey Bud,

Sorry, but you're way off base on coffee and erections. Coffee actually HELPS with boners and mitigates ED.

Here's a recent article and study: Coffee May Perk Up More Than Men's Brains: It Could Stave Off Erectile Dysfunction
Im not trying to bad talk the coffee industry. Try it on yourself. On me more than 1 cup or so raise anxiety and like over doing it with 3, 4 cups produces weaker erections. There are studies that go both ways. The best way with any substance is to see how it affects YOU particularly.
 

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Caffeine has been shown to have benefits for overall cardiovascular health. Plus, the caffeine positively affects the penis--here's the biology:

Why would caffeine prevent against ED?

Caffeine is known to affect blood vessel function, which the authors suggest is the likely mechanism for its effects on ED. They write that the “suggested biological mechanism is that caffeine triggers a series of pharmacological effects that lead to the relaxation of the penile helicine arteries, and the cavernous smooth muscle that lines cavernosal spaces, thus increasing penile blood flow.” In other words, arteries and smooth muscle relax, blood flow is enhanced, and the “cavernous” space in the penis that contributes to erection fills with blood more easily.

There are far more evil "lifestyle" contributors to ED like being overweight, being sedentary, poor diet, low self esteem, and stress.

Coffee isn't even on the map.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gives you anxiety which causes performance anxiety, also boosts your heart rate to hurt stamina
Coffee contains antioxidants which is playing role in producing testosterone, too much increases cortisol and this reverses the positive effect and could indeed cause anxiety.
 

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Coffee contains antioxidants which is playing role in producing testosterone, too much increases cortisol and this reverses the positive effect and could indeed cause anxiety.
For sure.
 
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