Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls trying to lock me down

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I was planning on playing these two girls that had both previously screwed me over. I followed all this structure in terms of what to do in order to develop attraction, get them pursuing you, etc. I was listening to audio books reading in forums (mostly this one) For some reason it’s like I didn’t expect it to work. I was wrong and it did. Now I have them both chasing. The problem is that they’re both trying to lock me down and wanting me to be monogamous. What’s the best way to deal with this?? It’s kinda a weird situation as I was just planning on spinning them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pic or it didn't happen.
I could but don’t want to make myself identifiable as I don’t know whose on these forums irl. And both good looking too. But I actually do need to know how to get out of the whole monogamy thing so I can hook up with both.
 

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I could but don’t want to make myself identifiable as I don’t know whose on these forums irl. And both good looking too. But I actually do need to know how to get out of the whole monogamy thing so I can hook up with both.
Just crush and next.

Personally, if women cause ****ery, they're axed or next Ed. There is no do over.
 

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Just crush and next.

Personally, if women cause ****ery, they're axed or next Ed. There is no do over.
They just caused trouble because I acted like a weak b*tch and didn’t know what I was doing. Now I want to have sex with both of them over a bit. But don’t want them to make me exclusive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrWood

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fvck one and toss her, keep the other.

this isnt rocket surgery.
 

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They just caused trouble because I acted like a weak b*tch and didn’t know what I was doing. Now I want to have sex with both of them over a bit. But don’t want them to make me exclusive.
Wait. You haven't had sex yet lol
 

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lie, deny and stick to your story until it all blows up in your face while you bang both for as long as you can. If you just want to spin them then spin them. Women seem to always want to lock a guy down, I think its in their DNA or something.
 

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fvck one and toss her, keep the other.

this isnt rocket surgery.

lie, deny and stick to your story until it all blows up in your face while you bang both for as long as you can. If you just want to spin them then spin them. Women seem to always want to lock a guy down, I think its in their DNA or something.
Either hump them both until it blows up in my face while lying and denying, or alternatively, just dump one and carry on. Both sound very practical with one requiring more effort.
 

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Either hump them both until it blows up in my face while lying and denying, or alternatively, just dump one and carry on.
and it's almost guaranteed the one you keep will dump you shortly afterwards because "she's just not feeling it" or some other swinging **** came along she wants to take a spin on him. I know with 50-50 odds I always seem to make the wrong choice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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