"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

meeting up with a hottt woman and nervous I am going to blow it

realbiggoals

Banned
Joined
Jan 8, 2020
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Age
42
I was googling a search about talking to women and first dates. I think I am hitting it off on whatsapp and I've brought down her defenses after a few weeks, so I am going to ask her out. Any good ways in doing so? She's is a single mamma and a bit older than me, but she is so hotttt, I just have to bone her. :devil::devil::devil:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,678
Reaction score
5,125
Ask her when the baby-daddy is taking the kids, and then offer yourself to come keep her company. Then bring over a nice bottle of wine (i.e., costing about $10).
 
Last edited:

realbiggoals

Banned
Joined
Jan 8, 2020
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Age
42
There's no daddy in the picture. She's been married a few times too. Her children are adult age. She 52, but hottttt. She's into yoga and stuff. Two of her children are a year or a few years older than me.
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,879
Reaction score
19,120
You already have blown it. Once you care this much about the outcome its pretty much a self fulfilling prophecy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

MountainSlide

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 17, 2014
Messages
612
Reaction score
357
Noooooo. I cant. I have a boner just thinking about her. I really want her. Bring her to me.
Bro. Ask her “when are you free to get together”. Make a definite date: time, place, day. You have to choose the location to take her. So don’t go asking what she’d like to do or any of that shyt. You just choose something to do and tell her.

simple as that my friend. Good luck!
 

MountainSlide

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 17, 2014
Messages
612
Reaction score
357
You already have blown it. Once you care this much about the outcome its pretty much a self fulfilling prophecy
Yeah but you still have to go through it. After you do it once or twice you learn to remain unattached. Then you get the pus.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Poonstra

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 27, 2018
Messages
263
Reaction score
190
Age
48
Yes, It was amusing.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,678
Reaction score
5,125
If you're getting a boner thinking about a 52 year old, then you need to hire yourself out to a drug company so they can figure out what is in your makeup to make you so horny.
 
Top