ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Tell her that things have developed between you and the other girl, but that nothing is really solid just yet. Just to give her a little bit of hope lol. Let us know how it goes.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bro so thats exactly what I told her.Tell her that things have developed between you and the other girl, but that nothing is really solid just yet. Just to give her a little bit of hope lol. Let us know how it goes.
All in the name of the game.Bro so thats exactly what I told her.
"I'm feeling things out with ber nothing is certain yet"
She was bitching pretty much the whole day saying I dropped her and all this sh1t.
I asked why she had called me and she said.
"I wanted to talk, what are your plans for tonight"
I said I was gonna spend my day with my fam and the drive out to a cousin house. ( that she lives near by)
I told her to have a happy new year and all that.
Then she said.
"Wow youre gonna drive out here and not even see me"
So I said.
"Well.. if you wanna see me pick me up"
Her.
"I'm not driving tonight"
"I'm going to my friends surprise birthday party. Idk where its going to be I'll send you the location when I get there"
She literally stood me up all night and was posting snapchats at her friends party and at the club and never sent me anything.
Tbh I feel super disrespected. And I feel she did that to get back at me for saying I'm going to try a relationship with this other girl. Like **** testing me.
I know shes going to reach out and try to apologize.
If she doesnt then oh well..I fvcked the sh1t outta her already.
But man that was dirty of her..
If she does reach out and ask to hang out I'm just gonna play it cool but i'm definitely going to say "how are you gonna make that up to me" (flaking)
She aint getting off easy.
What do you mean?All in the name of the game.
It’s just in reference to all the tricks people pull nowadays in regards to the relationships, e.g. not responding for X amount of time, gonna say this here, do this there, etc.What do you mean?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.