"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Tell her that things have developed between you and the other girl, but that nothing is really solid just yet. Just to give her a little bit of hope lol. Let us know how it goes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tell her that things have developed between you and the other girl, but that nothing is really solid just yet. Just to give her a little bit of hope lol. Let us know how it goes.
Bro so thats exactly what I told her.
"I'm feeling things out with ber nothing is certain yet"

She was bitching pretty much the whole day saying I dropped her and all this sh1t.

I asked why she had called me and she said.
"I wanted to talk, what are your plans for tonight"

I said I was gonna spend my day with my fam and the drive out to a cousin house. ( that she lives near by)
I told her to have a happy new year and all that.

Then she said.
"Wow youre gonna drive out here and not even see me"

So I said.
"Well.. if you wanna see me pick me up"

Her.
"I'm not driving tonight"
"I'm going to my friends surprise birthday party. Idk where its going to be I'll send you the location when I get there"

She literally stood me up all night and was posting snapchats at her friends party and at the club and never sent me anything.

Tbh I feel super disrespected. And I feel she did that to get back at me for saying I'm going to try a relationship with this other girl. Like **** testing me.
I know shes going to reach out and try to apologize.
If she doesnt then oh well..I fvcked the sh1t outta her already.

But man that was dirty of her..

If she does reach out and ask to hang out I'm just gonna play it cool but i'm definitely going to say "how are you gonna make that up to me" (flaking)

She aint getting off easy.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Bro so thats exactly what I told her.
"I'm feeling things out with ber nothing is certain yet"

She was bitching pretty much the whole day saying I dropped her and all this sh1t.

I asked why she had called me and she said.
"I wanted to talk, what are your plans for tonight"

I said I was gonna spend my day with my fam and the drive out to a cousin house. ( that she lives near by)
I told her to have a happy new year and all that.

Then she said.
"Wow youre gonna drive out here and not even see me"

So I said.
"Well.. if you wanna see me pick me up"

Her.
"I'm not driving tonight"
"I'm going to my friends surprise birthday party. Idk where its going to be I'll send you the location when I get there"

She literally stood me up all night and was posting snapchats at her friends party and at the club and never sent me anything.

Tbh I feel super disrespected. And I feel she did that to get back at me for saying I'm going to try a relationship with this other girl. Like **** testing me.
I know shes going to reach out and try to apologize.
If she doesnt then oh well..I fvcked the sh1t outta her already.

But man that was dirty of her..

If she does reach out and ask to hang out I'm just gonna play it cool but i'm definitely going to say "how are you gonna make that up to me" (flaking)

She aint getting off easy.
All in the name of the game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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