"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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“can tell you anything”

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Is it a good thing or a bad thing when a woman you’ve been seeing says she feels like she can tell you anything?

Seems good at first but then thinking about it could be bad if she thinks there’s nothing she can say that will cause you to judge her and lose interest
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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when she says this, she actually wants YOU to tell her something.. like "I love you"

Her: "I feel like I can tell you anything"
You: "thats sweet" / "cool" / "mmmhm"

depends if YOU want to get serious for a LTR, because that is what she wants, and she wants you to confirm.

beware.
 

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when she says this, she actually wants YOU to tell her something.. like "I love you"

Her: "I feel like I can tell you anything"
You: "thats sweet" / "cool" / "mmmhm"

depends if YOU want to get serious for a LTR, because that is what she wants, and she wants you to confirm.

beware.
Would have never thought of it that way but makes sense. She has said something along those lines twice now so ya maybe second time she was hoping I’d say the same
 
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