Girl jerking around

[josesfeir]

What does it mean when she calls you arrogant?

Been dating/screwing this girl off and on for a couple months now. We keep it casual and are mostly on FB status with the very occasional just going to the movies or to dinner nights. A few days ago I tried to break up our arrangement over text (we live almost an hour drive away) after she...

www.sosuave.net

So recently I got to this thread on this forum. I was dating a girl, we kissed, got touchy, but never had s3x. Since the first date and on, she has been contacting me almost 100%, replying and reacting to my instagram stories. Every time I arranged a date, and she came to my place in that day. Since the last time we got touchy, she replied to my stories twice, I wanted to set the date and got rejected. Since then, it's been more than a month of her reacting/replying to my stories for like twice a week, adding me as her "close friend" on Instagram, giving me hints, but when I try to set a date she blows me off. I told her twice "I've been busy, so please reach out to me if, and only if, what you'll say it's similar to 'let´s get together'". She told me I was arrogant, because I was cutting short our conversations via social network, she told me she didn't want to hang out together and that I was acting like a man who has a woman because of not wanting to talk, but she "wasn't paranoid" about it. I told her that if she wanted to talk, let's get together, she said no, so I told her "reach out to me when you change your mind".
After that, guess who reacted to my story again.
What's going on with that girl ? My guess is that she is dating someone but things are not going so well.

 

[andreihaha]

Girls always jerk me off on dates.
If "touchy" doesn't mean that, then you lost your chance with her. Ignore->next.

 

[MrWood]

Stop asking her out, stop contacting her, basically ignore her.

Reply when she does, but yea... go silent. She will contact you.

 

[josesfeir]

What does it mean when she calls you arrogant?

Been dating/screwing this girl off and on for a couple months now. We keep it casual and are mostly on FB status with the very occasional just going to the movies or to dinner nights. A few days ago I tried to break up our arrangement over text (we live almost an hour drive away) after she...

www.sosuave.net

So recently I got to this thread on this forum. I was dating a girl, we kissed, got touchy, but never had s3x. Since the first date and on, she has been contacting me almost 100%, replying and reacting to my instagram stories. Every time I arranged a date, and she came to my place in that day. Since the last time we got touchy, she replied to my stories twice, I wanted to set the date and got rejected. Since then, it's been more than a month of her reacting/replying to my stories for like twice a week, adding me as her "close friend" on Instagram, giving me hints, but when I try to set a date she blows me off. I told her twice "I've been busy, so please reach out to me if, and only if, what you'll say it's similar to 'let´s get together'". She told me I was arrogant, because I was cutting short our conversations via social network, she told me she didn't want to hang out together and that I was acting like a man who has a woman because of not wanting to talk, but she "wasn't paranoid" about it. I told her that if she wanted to talk, let's get together, she said no, so I told her "reach out to me when you change your mind".
After that, guess who reacted to my story again.
What's going on with that girl ? My guess is that she is dating someone but things are not going so well.

By "touchy" I mean, we were close to sex, but she told me she had to leave because she asked for permission until some time.

 

[josesfeir]

Reply when she does, but yea... go silent. She will contact you.

She reacted to my story. She can't even wait a week to do it again

 

[MrWood]

yes, let her keep reacting... this is not contacting you.
Move on to the next girl, until this one gets back to you... you are busy doing stuff, shes busy reacting.

 

[josesfeir]

yes, let her keep reacting... this is not contacting you.
Move on to the next girl, until this one gets back to you... you are busy doing stuff, shes busy reacting.

So, reacting to a story is not the same as replying?

 

[andreihaha]

So, reacting to a story is not the same as replying?

Actually, no one gives a sh1t.
I'm not into social media, everything going on there is zero.
I log into facebook once a month maybe and I might like a picture from a chick in an exotic place like The Pyramids or the Petra ruins. Does that mean I want to fk her? No. Does it mean I will ever talk to her? No. Does it mean anything? No.
There are better women out there who are/will be more interested in you. They will make you happier, man.

 

[Rainman4707]

I agree. Always judge her by her actions. Your time and attention are two of the strongest things you can give to women. Don't give them out unless a bit*h deserves it!.
She keeps declining your date offers, so concentrate more on other girls who your time and attention may be more worthwhile.

 

[Rainman4707]

Blow right through this. In 1 ear and out the other. The translation is: "i think your talking less because your confident and have other options" "I'm becoming attracted but don't know how to explain it"

This is ********, Pook talked extensively in his book. I highly recomend it.
Always think covert. Example.
"What do you want to do tonight"?

Shes not asking your opinion here. Shes saying, "lead me out somewhere and you make the path"

This was the last oppertunity to grab from from your info in post only.
Your too available.
Guys tend to think they are not being to available but in fact need to even go closer to zero availability.
Dont invite her again ever until she offers. And she goes to you. If not move on.

Its a difficult one trying to get a good balance here. Try to not be to available but want to get them out sooner the better.

 

[josesfeir]

Well, in conclusion: I'm done with her. I deleted her WhatsApp number, she still follows me on Instagram and sees my stories.
Thank you guys for your advices. When she does that thing of replying/reacting I'll let her DM's as seen.

 

[jaymbrs]

@Mauser96 nailed it. I had one doing the EXACT same thing to me. We would occasionally go out but nothing would come from it yet she would like all my posts. Just to keep my attention just enough for her to be satisfied. Don't give her that satisfaction. Just move on. She'll definitely reach out but if she was anything like the girl I dealt with, it'll be a cycle.

 

[lamath]

Reacting to your story does not mean anything if her other actions tell an other story.
Social nework is not real life, a waste of time and energy

 

[dude99]

So, reacting to a story is not the same as replying?

Not at all. Nothing but breadcrumbs. And we ignore breadcrumbs