"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Woman not Dating immigrant

FruitLoops

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2019
Messages
149
Reaction score
58
I have heard a lot of my immigrant friends in Canada tell me that women here dont date immigrants. I want to confirm the authenticity of this statement. Is this true that women in western country especially in canada, would not date an immigrant?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,881
Reaction score
19,142
It depends. What do you have going for you? How good looking are you? How much game do you have?

There is no way of answering this question without knowing these things and how you interact with women.
 
A

AJ84

Guest
I have heard a lot of my immigrant friends in Canada tell me that women here dont date immigrants. I want to confirm the authenticity of this statement. Is this true that women in western country especially in canada, would not date an immigrant?
In the three major cities (Vancouver, Montreal and Toronto), it’s quite common to see women dating second gen immigrants from various cultural backgrounds. If they’re not particularly religious, or they share the same religion then it’s pretty much a regular thing that doesn’t even register as different for most people. No one seems to bat an eyelash over mixed races couples here.

Small town Canada, less likely but also less diversity.

That said, I can see it being more difficult for first gen immigrants in the major cities. Canadians have a lot assumptions about immigrants from certain backgrounds, esp backgrounds that are not seen as liberal or open minded. Second gen immigrants are seen as more likely to be liberal than first gen and hence, hold more similar values (not saying that’s necessarily true but it’s what many Canadians assume until proven wrong).
 
Last edited by a moderator:

FruitLoops

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2019
Messages
149
Reaction score
58
In the three major cities (Vancouver, Montreal and Toronto), it’s quite common to see women dating second gen immigrants from various cultural backgrounds. If they’re not particularly religious, or they share the same religion then it’s pretty much a regular thing that doesn’t even register as different for most people. No one seems to bat an eyelash over mixed races couples here.

Small town Canada, less likely but also less diversity.

That said, I can see it being more difficult for first gen immigrants in the major cities. Canadians have a lot assumptions about immigrants from certain backgrounds, esp backgrounds that are not seen as liberal or open minded. Second gen immigrants are seen as more likely to be liberal than first gen and hence, hold more similar values (not saying that’s necessarily true but it’s what many Canadians assume until proven wrong).
That makes sense. Most of my immigrant friends are first generation immigrants from India and are staying in ottawa, which i am pretty sure has less diversity.
 
Top