"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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P.S.A. 40+ year old Women are not HB9's

MillionBillionaire

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Guys. Stop with the 76 year old HB9.5's, she looks like she is 40! Bulls shyyt.

It is disgusting, we should try to have some standards around here.

If you are thinking a 55 year old washed up hag is all you are worth then you got some major problems.

You are the prize so stop salivating over dumpster tier women.

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So Melania Trump wouldn't be considered an HB9?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Black Widow Void

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I really don't think you should be obsessing over someone else's standards, unless your buddy is the one recruiting girls into your 3-way. We all know the 10 scale is just a term of art, completely subjective, and just a way to communicate perceived attractiveness. Your 10 might be my 2, and vice versa. If Hal looks at Rose Mary and sees a 10, don't be Jason Alexander.
Did they lift the ban on critical thinking? I was beginning to think that this was turning into a thought prohibitive zone.
 

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I really don't think you should be obsessing over someone else's standards, unless your buddy is the one recruiting girls into your 3-way. We all know the 10 scale is just a term of art, completely subjective, and just a way to communicate perceived attractiveness. Your 10 might be my 2, and vice versa. If Hal looks at Rose Mary and sees a 10, don't be Jason Alexander.
YOU ARE CRAZY.

The dudes here are all BILLIONAIRES. Top 1/10 of a percent in looks, status and money. When they walk down the street, ladies automatically undress and start gushing from their pus because they are just that wet!

J/k of course.
 
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