"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Police woman are bombs

Von

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So in my city 20% of police are women. Police are often in a duo, 1 man and a woman.
They often date each others.

Anyway... ALL POLICE WOMEN Are 10hbs.

It's a consensus with every guys I talk to about it. They all agrees police women are just too hot, too sex.

What's you guys opinion
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So in my city 20% of police are women. Police are often in a duo, 1 man and a woman.
They often date each others.

Anyway... ALL POLICE WOMEN Are 10hbs.

It's a consensus with every guys I talk to about it. They all agrees police women are just too hot, too sex.

What's you guys opinion
Not one bad looking where i live , hot af.
However its polarized imo, you remember the police women who was accused of beating a few ppl during the student strike in mtl.
 

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Not one bad looking where i live , hot af.
However its polarized imo, you remember the police women who was accused of beating a few ppl during the student strike in mtl.
LOOOOLLL I was actually going to refer to her as not a good example.

Didnt expect it to come that fast.

Actually, she's the only NOT hot one I ever saw.

I live in Montreal, Canada, we always in the top10 or top5 of the cities with the most beautiful women.

My trips to NYC,London,Tokyo etc confirm it.

Other than that police officer (now ex). They are all hot, especially the ones on the street.

I got some police women in IT and they hot too.

My comment is general. Like in Toronto, all the police were male and tattooed, no hot girls.

To stringpuller: the policewomen here have really model feminine bodies, can't speak about their mental (other than they usually insecure)
 

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meh I did kown some woman ahve unifrom fetish, but men for woman? its a dominatrix thing?

btw saying all female cops are hot is forcefull
 

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LOOOOLLL I was actually going to refer to her as not a good example.

Didnt expect it to come that fast.

Actually, she's the only NOT hot one I ever saw.

I live in Montreal, Canada, we always in the top10 or top5 of the cities with the most beautiful women.

My trips to NYC,London,Tokyo etc confirm it.

Other than that police officer (now ex). They are all hot, especially the ones on the street.

I got some police women in IT and they hot too.

My comment is general. Like in Toronto, all the police were male and tattooed, no hot girls.

To stringpuller: the policewomen here have really model feminine bodies, can't speak about their mental (other than they usually insecure)

Ahhj i agree Mtl is one o the places wih he hottest women, irs like there is no fat women there.

Strin need to go to Mtl to see, but i agree that even if they are not masculine physically lots of masculine attitude in general
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No not all 10's. Its their attitude from their job. They get to be "over" alot of folks. And many are attracted ti that. That personality type by nature will be controlling and trying to get shyt on you. So be fvcking careful.
 

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Brazilian female cop

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Not all of them are hot though
 

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Too masculine for me.i dont know how any man. Real man that is think masculine women are hot. Maybe some internal gayness in there. Who knows.
My opinion but Tatts and AK47 yeilding brute babes are not my cup of tea. I like sundresses and submission.
Apple pie on sunday in the sundress. Doesnt get much better then that postcard.

Maybe some dudes want to be cuffed whipped and dominated like a bytch.
I agree 100 percent. I don't like manly acting women and women with big muscles. I'd rather have a feminine looking woman.

That girl I went out on a date with 3 weeks ago was a former State Trooper. I looked her up online and she's listed in a federal lawsuit being sued.
 

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I will date cops but not commit to them or for that matter any women that works in law enforcement or who is a lawyer or works for the courts or lawyers. I have seen women in these fields use their knowledge and contacts to make their ex's lives a living hell. If they want to have some fun than I will do my part but anything more than that is a hard no.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In my area many are quite attractive, but gay. Even though you wouldn’t know it. Like on an average platoon, it exceeds 50%.

The straight ones are inundated with opportunities to date alphas at work, and have long shifts, so good luck with one in an LTR
 
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